His tone of voice changes when he talks to me?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy I'm talking to and it's known we both like each other. When we're together he gets this look in his eyes and his tone of voice gets lower and gentle sounding.. It's really sexy too. I can't tell if he's trying to seduce me, or if he's just being affectionate? :p

[Anonymous]

The seduction process is often involuntary. A guy's voice tends to get huskier when he's getting emotional or... well, you know. So let's presume you're turning him on; his voice hits a lower range, it's a little harder to catch everything he's saying, you lean in -- hello, autmatic invite to let him get closer to you -- BAM.

The fact that you find it sexy just tells you that you're attracted to him too. Now if you go and tell him that you think it's so sexy when his voice gets that low, try not to chuckle and kiss him wantonly when he says "Yeah?" in either a higher pitch (too excited) or purposely lower voice (to haul you off to the dark corner of wherever you two are), lol.

Careful, my dear!

[Asker]

Thanks for your answer! :) So you think he is involuntarily doing that or is it on purpose?

[Opinion Owner]

ALL guys do it -- it's natural, usually involuntary -- but once it's brought to their attention (or if they are specifically coached that a lower register is considered sexy) you may get some funny versions of this, lol. A friend of mine has a sort of higher pitched voice when he's all excited by a class project or something but if he tries to approach a girl he adopts this husky John Wayne voice and says "Well hello there." to the point that all the girls LOL and slap his arm because of the contrast

[Asker]

Haha. :) That's funny! I will remember that! Thanks!

[Opinion Owner]

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