Is a woman with a high sex drive...

[zalew]

seen as being high maintenance? In the short term I can see it would be a bonus but seriously, for a long term relationship is it something you could keep up with day in day out... Say at least three times a day everyday on demand?

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High maintenance meaning you need to put a lot of time and effort in to keep her happy. Men THINK they want a woman with a high sex drive but long term it can hard to keep up.

[mshaker]

okay first of all, 3 times a day is cool. but you have to remeber, that you would empty our tanks out all the time. So you need to give us time to refill. Aka eating and letting our bodies rebuild.

Now I don't know why you want it 3 times a day. Once for like 3 hours would suffice I believe. But I'm guessing you like it quick and crazy. So maybe that's why you want it. And not steamy and intimate for a longer period with multiple bursts.

Anyways, I don't have an issue with that. Actually I used to date an older woman, and well we used to have some crazy sex lol For hours. It all depends on the guy. Any guy can keep up if he really wanted too.

[mshaker]

I got a bad rating because?... and having a high sex drive doesn't mean your high maintenance. High maintenance is someone that cares about their appearance a lot more then you.

[lghulm]

It would depend on the guy, not all guys have enough stamina or desire to keep up at that kind of rate - I don't think I could long-term (once a days fine!) For a guy that desires it though I am sure it would be great!

[udolipixie]

Is a woman with a high sex drive seen as being high maintenance?

Highly unlikely as it seems a gal's high sex drive is a guy's normal sex drive. A gal with a high sex drive is probably only seen as high maintenance if she wants an orgasm.

[lghulm]

I am not sure about women's sex drive being lower than men... and believe it is actually a myth (brought about by women not wanting to have sex with men who are not conscientious in the bedroom). Every woman I have ever dated has wanted sex at least once a day, even 3 years into the relationship... I don't think of myself as the greatest lover either and figure that it is normal for women when they have a guy that makes them comfortable and who is giving in the bedroom. What are your thoughts?

[udolipixie]

@lghulm

I think multiple studies, statistics, and etc has shown it's not a myth that gals sex drive are lower than guys.

Your relationship experience in my opinion doesn't dissuade from that as it's not saying that those gals had the same drive as you. I know gals who want to get f*cked once or twice a day however their partners want it more than once or twice.

[kheserthorpe]

No. That's not what high maintenance refers to.

[kheserthorpe]

No. High maintenance is a term that refers to women who require a lot of emotional or practical work in the relationship. Since sex is almost never viewed as 'work', high drive women aren't viewed as high maintenance.

Realistically, many men WOULD find that hard to keep up with, but they'd feel that they were failing or decide you were 'a nympho'.

[zalew]

nympho is probably the best discrption, just came out of a 21 year faithful marraige.

[kheserthorpe]

Guys just don't think about sex when they're talking high maintenance. They generally mean she wants expensive stuff and has lots of rules and requires a lot of calming down to handle day to day life. Girl who acts like a princess.

A lot of men have simply never been with someone who wanted more sex then them. They imagine a woman who wants it whenever they do, not one who wants it more then them.

I think I could keep up, but I know it would actually be hard.