I stole money from my boyfriends wallet.. what to do?

[Anonymous]

I was angry at him because he was treating me bad, and at night when he was sleeping I stole from his wallet 120 $ ..

He had a lot money there so didn't even notice it ( I think so) and he trusts me for sure because he put his wallet in place where I could easily took money.

I know I did something bad yes , I really regret, he treated me bad but that doesn't mean I had right to do it..

Now we won't see each other for about 2 months, and I don't know how to give him this money back? what to do?

[Someone1]

First of all ask yourself why you did it? Do you think it's okay to steal from someone when you are mad at them? Do you resent your boyfriend? Seriously this is not cool, give him back the money and tell him what you did at least you can be honest with him about it, or do you like to go around and feel bad and hide things from him?

Do you trust him?

[Asker]

i stole this money because he hit me, I said that I regret stealing and it happened first time to me, I think I deserve forgiveness, why everyone here is hating me?

[Someone1]

First of all you diden't say anything about him hitting you and secound of all it dousen't sound like a healthy relationship you got going there, why did he hit you?

[Asker]

he hit me because he was mad at me because of a small thing, he also screams at me often, I was at his home, under his control and I couldn't do much, I just had to do soemthing , as I couldn't hit him or scream - because he is stronger, I decided to steal his money.

[Someone1]

Then it only makes sense to why you did it, I understand you now, but seriously hitting and screaming at you? C'mon that doesn’t sound like love to me and you feeling controlled? Unless you are not doing anything to provoke it then he has no right to treat you that way. I think you should seek help.

Has it always been like this?

[Asker]

no, it wasn't like this usually, just this time when I visited him he started behaving like this. He was screaming at me because of small reasons like I woke him up earlier , wanted to go to other restaurant than usually, because of mistake I told him wrong way where to go.. I've never been in such situation that soemone treats me like this so I didn't know how to deal with it and stealing his money made me feel better , it was like punishing him..

[Someone1]

Ok it is only normal to feel that way, but what this will only end up to become is a relationship based on deception and in the end cheating.

First of all it's not okay that he screams or even hits you, that should be obvious to you by now, if it isen't then you should seek professional help.

Secound of all a relationship is build on trust and respect unless you have that with him it's not going to work in the long run.

[celestialdaeva]

Dafuq?! Mail him his money, plus an extra $120 to punish yourself, and seek therapy. Pronto.

[Asker]

i stole this money because he hit me, I said that I regret stealing and it happened first time to me, I think I deserve forgiveness, why everyone here is hating me?

[celestialdaeva]

2 wrongs don't make a right. He was wrong to hit you, but that doesn't make you any less wrong for stealing. The fact you are now crying abuse and actually want to stay with him, I'm going to again recommend you get into counseling. ASAP.

[Anonymous]

I hate cheaters, liars, flirts and thieves.