Today we talked about the financial problems I have, he has financial problems as well and couldn’t give me a gift on a holiday recently which I didn’t worry much about because I know his situation.
However, today we had an argument, he told me some hurtful things and then I showed him a screenshot of my friends receiving super expensive gifts for those holidays and told him, he’s not even willing to help a little bit while girls less pretty and smart than me get much more expensive things.
I know I was wrong and apologized, I just said those things after he hurt me first.
Later on, we both apologized each other and told each other how we care for each other.
This morning I saw him sending 200 USD to me, which I thought he sent because I compared him to other girls boyfriends who gave them very expensive gifts and I felt bad.
I told him I know he has a hard time too and maybe it’s better he keeps it but I appreciate it and love him.
He said he sent it because I told him I had some financial problems and wanted to help a tiny bit he could.
I feel bad I didn’t accept it not because that money is important for me, but because I feel like he would feel more useful If I accepted, I just didn’t want him to think money is something I expect from him.
He didn’t insist on giving, which means he really has a hard financial situation.
Did I do a bad thing to not accept the money he wanted to give? I just wanted to be a good and a caring girlfriend.
However, today we had an argument, he told me some hurtful things and then I showed him a screenshot of my friends receiving super expensive gifts for those holidays and told him, he’s not even willing to help a little bit while girls less pretty and smart than me get much more expensive things.
I know I was wrong and apologized, I just said those things after he hurt me first.
Later on, we both apologized each other and told each other how we care for each other.
This morning I saw him sending 200 USD to me, which I thought he sent because I compared him to other girls boyfriends who gave them very expensive gifts and I felt bad.
I told him I know he has a hard time too and maybe it’s better he keeps it but I appreciate it and love him.
He said he sent it because I told him I had some financial problems and wanted to help a tiny bit he could.
I feel bad I didn’t accept it not because that money is important for me, but because I feel like he would feel more useful If I accepted, I just didn’t want him to think money is something I expect from him.
He didn’t insist on giving, which means he really has a hard financial situation.
Did I do a bad thing to not accept the money he wanted to give? I just wanted to be a good and a caring girlfriend.
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