I think it's really nice to not have to say a word and let your eyes do the talking. Long eye contacts might be pretty awkward if they're unwanted. Shy girls and guys are known for avoiding eye contact too simply because they're shy. Even I can feel slightly awkward if I remain eye contact for a longer period of time. But it's a good kind of awkward, especially if I'm looking into my crush's eyes. He's great at remaining eye contact, and actually, he's the one who made me more comfortable with long eye contact. I don't know, there's just something sexy and intimate about looking deeply into another person's eyes without having to say a word. It's a moment that only you two share, and that only you two experience together. It's great. It's awkward. It's sexy. Simply perfect, if wanted, that is.
If someone doesn't want to make eye contact or keeps breaking it quickly, it can mean a lot of things. More often than not, it's simply an indicator that the person is shy. But of course, it can also be a sign of disinterest. It simply depends on the person and the situation.
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Well its not attractive or unattractive. I voted C because eye contact makes me feel awkward because I'm shy. If the guy makes me nervous, I will constantly look down and won't look at him in the eye. If I'm comfortable around him, I can hold eye contact for a little while longer.
i personally can't hold eye contact when I'm really shy and nervous, even with the guy I like, but if I like him a lot and I notice he is trying to look into my eyes I will try my best to hold it too, its like your brain signals signaling each other you like each other...
I normally avoid making eye contact because I'm hard of hearing so I tend to focus on their lips so if I don't hear something they say clearly enough, I can fall back on reading their lips. Which tends to happen quite a bit unless they're a loud and clear speaker. I have tried making eye contact before, but I find myself hearing about 30% of what they are saying and thus making the conversation kind of awkward since I don't really know what "our" conversation is even about. If a girl is repeatedly breaking eye contact, that sounds like she's really shy, if she does it once and doesn't make eye contact again, she might be uninterested in the fella, or maybe finds the conversation a tad boring and begins to day dream a bit.
See, when women talk to each other, they usually establish eye contact to signify that they are listening. Guys don't establish eye contact as much when they're talking to each other. So when guys talk to women, if they don't establish eye contact, women don't think the guys are listening.
I heard that the best place to look when you're looking at someone is to look between the eyes. Then it looks like you're paying attention. However, I find that if I establish eye contact for too long, I feel like I'm staring.
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A girl who seems to be blatantly avoiding eye contact with me can be cute, because let's face it... I'm kind of a big deal. If a girl isn't looking for the right reason, then she's looking for the wrong reason. Nobody simply fails to notice my existence.
Avoiding eye contact either means shy or strongly disinterested/angry towards me. Shy is cute if she isn't too dodgy. If she's avoiding me out of spite, its because I made her hate me and quite frankly I wouldn't look her in the eye either because I don't care about her.I usually make eye contact with women, mainly to show respect.
However, I can tell by her eyes what she is trying to say. If she maintians contact the whole time she is VERY interested in what you have to say. Occasional short breaks in contact means she is listening but something else it fighting for her attention. If she barely makes any eye contact at all she is NOT interested and wants you to leave.Here's a lesson in socializing 101. Usually when you talk to a person one on one, you look at them to show that you're interested. If you're looking all over the place but the person, you're either shy, bored, or have no interest. With that being said, I seduce girls with my puppy dog eyes. :D
Breaking eye contact means:
1) Uncomfortable
2) Shy
3) Not interested
From my experience, girls who establish eye contact and repeatedly break it while returning to your eyes means that they are nervous or shy.It took me months of us dating for me to be able to keep eye contact with my boyfriend for longer than .3 seconds at a time. For some reason eye contact makes me extremely uncomfortable and panicky feeling so I have to look away. I think I'm just too shy for it.
I personally have always been a huge eye contact person, so in regards to if I like a guy, I'll definitely, I guess you can say "seductively" stare into his eyes aha but that's if I know the person, not if it's just some random hot guy I happen to see in aisle 4 at Walmart. It's pretty awkward if you don't know the person, but subtle glances could never hurt.
This guy would stare at me all the time and he even told me he liked me a lot. He'd would bring things up that we talked about weeks ago. So you'd think he's interested right. Thing is he's wearing a ring so obviously he's married. Nice guy but, made me feel kind of funny. So I just avoided him in the future. If he had been single. Then I would of found him to be extremely attractive but, he wasn't.
Eye contact tells a lot about a person.
If you're too scared to look me in the eye when you talk I can tell that you don't see me as at least an equal.It depends on how long the eye contact is. If it's for less than three seconds, it's normal. If it's longer than that, I'm going to feel uncomfortable no matter what the situation is.
I find it attractive.
I usually give my Clint Eastwood squint to a girl when I'm attracted to her (without having the "hard face" on). It grabs her attention usually :)If a girl maintains eye contact with a guy for a while it's very hot!
I like eye contact, tells you a lot about a person. I am not afraid to give anyone eye contact.
If a man makes eye contact with me I know he is interested, I don't find it awkward at all I find it to be intuative...It lets me know he's interested enough that if I wanted to I can start a conversation with him and vice versa...
Its one way of communicating..Keeping eye contact with the one you only pass by is a bit awkward, just don't take it longer cause sometimes it's creepy or someone will assume that your flirting.
doesn't bother me but straight up staring is meaning not looking around
It's pretty awkward. for me. I will think something is wrong with me
Girl holding strong eye contact with a smile or positive look, with periodic breaks, is hot as f***.
It's a sign of attraction, familiarity, hatred, or just the eye wandering.
"a bit attractive"? I'd say its very attractive...really like it. sadly some girls find it a little awkward.
If she's my girlfriend I like it, otherwise I find it awkward
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