Yes, me a whole semester with a guy, he took me out for dinner 3 nights a week after class for a semester so like 50 dates, the whole semester he flirted with me in class and we would even skip class to be with each other like hanging out, but he never kissed me or held my hand or anything I just wanted to bang my head off the wall. That was 2 years ago but now when I go into his work he sees me and looks the other way or puts his hands over his face I just wanna be like idiot I see you lol. And we had never exchanged feelings. Its all over now I had another case like this too :/ they just kill me!
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yeah, it is the worst, this guy and I have been like this for almost four years, he has shown me several times he likes me and I have done the same thing. we both have dated people during this time period but nothing serious, things are weird and it makes me really sad, I want him so bad, but I know I haven't handled it so well, sometimes I am to forward sometimes I am to rude, he is the same way to me, sometimes he treats me really sweetly and sometimes it is as if I were his best friend. it makes me really sad
Yes, it's actually happening to me right now. This guy who I met back in Feb has been taking me out to dinner, the movies, events with his family, out to the lake and everything and ended up telling me he liked me, and has for a while, and I told him the same thing, but we still haven't done anything about it. We haven't even talked about it since yet we continue to still hang out and all that. Everything happens for a reason so you just have to let it take it's course.
Seems like a friendships that's been risen to something more.
That's a tough one, but you need to show initiation if nothing has happened yet.
Shame how the fear of rejections puts us on tilt.
Just read 98% of the questions on here...it's almost ALL like that...
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Some of the guys falls in this category, they are highly responsible, high sense of duty, making a commitment basically kills them. They commonly have a weakness of unable to multi-task, if they are giving you too much attention, their studies/career/every other task will fail badly, if they focus on their other task, you will be neglected.
If you truly want to get him, you have to tell him, you want only him and nothing else. He will commit to you and goes all out. Other things in life will comes naturally, with both of you supporting each other.
There is a good chance, you will end up having a tough life together with him, but he will never abandon you.Yes. I think that happens quite often actually. It really sucks. That has happened to me twice in the last few years. Unless one of the people have the courage to speak up and let their feelings out nothing is going to happen unless they are both very drunk and no outsider is hitting on one of them.
That happened to me, and I regret not doing something. It also happened to my sister and it makes me mad how they make things more complicated, well specially the guy haha
limbo sucks I know I'm in it. If you know he is in to you take the rains and make moves noway to know unless you try. two sides to this coin I'm very shy and don't know when the right time is. just lay it on him.
yes if I know they both like one another then I just tell them that the other likes them so they both know then I just leave it up to them. it seems to work.
Story of my life. This always happens to me. Always.
Happens a lot to me.
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