Why do you think a guy and a girl will keep talking to each other when they argue a lot?

[Anonymous]

I have no idea why I do it. I argue with her a lot but at the same time we care about each other and we can "feel" what the other is thinking. Sometimes we argue a lot for a long time, we get mad, irritated and upset at each other but then then next day we talk for a little bit and everything is ok.

I like her but I don't know WHY we disagree so much and even when we get mad, we can't spend a lot of time without talking and after a few hours we'll start bugging each other.

Are we crazy or something? I know if anybody else annoyed me I wouldn't talk to them. If somebody else said some of the things she has said to me, there's no way I would talk to them again and I've said some jerky things to her and yet we keep talking.

Why? lol

[Anonymous]

I'm in a similar situation. We abuse the heck out of each other verbally. It's really unhealthy. I don't take crap from anyone. And this guy has said some downright awful sh*t to me. And I have done the same to him. We aren't involved romantically. He likes to tell me all about his annoying girl problems. I think of him as an annoying ass little brother. like I have love for him, and will have his back to the fullest...but he just annoys me horribly. He thinks he is so cool, but he's kinda retarded. But it's okay...cuz I love him.

[Anonymous]

No you two are not "crazy".

Two people are entitled to your different opinion.

That's what makes the world go around.

As long as both of you can move forward after a argument or minor disagreement

that actually makes a healthy relationship.

[PINKTSUANMI]

MAKE UP SEX AND IN LOVE SO DEEP IT'S DRIVING YOU CRAZY SO YOU GET USED TO THE ARGUING AND MAKING UP

[Anonymous]

well I think its somewhat common, maybe you have way to much trust and feel like you can say all that sutff, try to talk to her and tell her you need to get along more rather than fight.

[tiredofwaiting]

Some people just aren't good for each other they love one other but cannot be together for what ever reason

[Anonymous]

because they think they need something from the other person.

[Anonymous]

Is it a physical thing? Are you two sexually involved? That'd be my guess.

[Anonymous]

Deep down they want each other like an old married couple

[Anonymous]

because the good things overcome the bad ones