When a guy and a girl argue a lot and yet can't stop talking to each other?

[Anonymous]

I have this kind of weird relationship with this girl I met. We seem to argue (playfully) all the time and it can go on forever. Even though we grt on each others' nerves from time to time, we talk every time we see each other and I find myself thinking about her more, even though there are girls who are nicer, less stubborn and less sarcastic than her but for some reason I always look forward to seeing her. What is going on? You think she feels the same way or is she just annoyed?

[DishLady]

There are a lot of similar questions about this at the moment. The winter must just bring it out of people, lol. Alright, here goes:

The truth is that it depends. You have to see if she's being snippy but smiling, or whether she is sincerely scowling at you. I have a friend who I get REALLY p*ssed at, but when he looks back at me a certain way, I just sigh and shake my head. I can't stay mad at him for long. Same goes on his end.

Mind you, this indicates that you guys might just end up being friends at the end of this phase. Generally, however, it can indicate an attraction. Just don't p*ss each other off too much, lol.

Hope this helps.

[Asker]

The thing is that we are not really friends. She is friend of a friend and when we hang out, she is there. SO I can be having a conversation with other people and she will start crap (saying how something I like is lame, or boring or if I'm complaining she starts making this "whaa whaa" crying noise or asking me if I ever stop crying)SO when she says those things, I start bantering with her and its great, most of the time I "wait" for her to start something so we can talk.

[DishLady]

Are you sitting far apart from e/o when it starts? If so, tell her to "Come say that again to my face." and see how she reacts. If she doesn't take the bait, go over to her, smile, lean in close and call her a chicken. Just call her on the bs so you can get to the next phase. ;-)

[justathought191]

Have you read "Much Ado About Nothing" by William Shakespeare. Two of the characters that fall in love start out with a bantering and playful fighting relationship. You can't stop thinking about her, because she challenges you in a way that nice girls don't. You probably actually have to think around her and have to say what you really think. There's a novelty to someone that isn't just comfortable right away. Before you worry about where she is and what she's feeling, I'd try to get a better handle on how you are feeling. And then take action following that determination.

[lovely_girl]

I had the exact same relationship with a guy friend of mine,we are the best of friends,i like him more than a friend but he started dating someone else so I just kept quiet,i din't want to lose the friendship. Maybe if I asked him sooner the outcome would have been different,so you never know,don't wait til she finds someone else just ask if you two would ever be more than friends and if she says no leave it at that,save your pride and your friendship.

hope this helps:)

[judytrad]

lol it's caled LOVE hahahahahaha lol seriuosly ask her out then see how she's REALLY feels about u?