What would you think when you see a guy and a girl arguing all the time and yet they get along great?

[Anonymous]

Im in this situation with a girl where we seem to argue and bicker a lot over little things. Sometimes we have serious arguments and stop talking to each other for days for after a while we'll get over it and start talking like nothing happened.

I just think that anybody in their right mind would just stop interacting with said person instead of arguing all the time but the thing is that there's a playfulness to ther arguments and we both enjoy picking on each other. The serious arguments usually start from a misunderstanding and it seems, at least to me, that when we patch things up we seem to enjoy talking to each other even more and we try not to let stupid things get in our way.

What would you say the main reason for our stubborness to talk to each other is? I kinda like her but I've liked people before and after ONE fight, I lose interest, but I can't seem to do the same thing with her...

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you like her, also sounds like she likes you. If I had to guess your stubborness..I would say two peas in a pod... Aww, looks like you have a nice intenses relationship, or at least one in the making how sweet!.

I personally think there's tension between you two.

Wether it's sexual, emotional, or just genuine love and respect for one another. People can be attracted to each other for a whole lot of different reasons.

Attraction can be so strong and it won't allow you to just give up on person(the best kind).., as you would of already in any other situation, or if it was anyone else.

Is this your girlfriend?, best friend? Orrrrr?

I ask cause dude if this is your girlfriend your speaking about..your in love with her. Duh..your saying you find your arguments cute.

If its a friend..you could be developing stronger feeling for her than you think. I only say that because your normal reaction is to just let go after one argument, but you "seem to can't do that with this girl. why ask yourself why?. If you did let go would you miss her, or what?.

And also I think you two could be flirting with each other as well, she's probably upset you don't read minds..lol..also because of the "constant bickering" between you two.

Maybe you two should try to talk about what obvious which are the mutual feelings you share for each other if its your girlfriend, maybe taking things to the next level.

If its a friend tell her you want to be more than that right now then grab her and kiss her. :-).

[Asker]

Well, I'd say she is just a friend. Its kinda hard to figure out what with the constant arguments and making up and stuff. We know almost everything about each other because we talk a lot and we know each other like the back of our hands, what makes us mad, annoys us, makes us laugh etc. Seriously, I have never had this kind of connection with anybody, I just wish she didn't get mad as much :/ lol

[Opinion Owner]

U have a choice to make. If you know each other as well as you say then you know exactly why she behave this way. Are you in denial? Or looking for a reason to not address her?

You know her, sad thing is that either one of you know how special this connection you share. I have the same one with my man of 8yrs its so weird he just knows just by looking at me.And I love him so much for that its amazing, yeah we go back and forth. It means nothing because our connection will never allow us to hurt eachoth

[Asker]

Well, I do know her but we have some disagreements. We have tried to try not to do things to annoy each other but sometimes it just happens and most of the times we don't mean to do it, its maybe something we said that got misunderstood and took seriously, that kind of thing

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, OK funny you keep making excuses for you two to continue speaking.

Lol..thats adorable. your down playing the situation now. why?. If this upset you a lot , and if you two are not speaking now like "normal " here's your chance to drop her. Why don't you just drop her like how you would of if it was anyone else?. Why do you want her around?

[Asker]

Well, right now we are doing good. Here's the deal: when I finally say forget it and move on it won't be long before she goes up to me and starts making small talk and teasing me and stuff. Even if the day before she said not to talk to her, all of a sudden she'll talk to me. If I don't respond well, she'll be like "oh I'm trying to be nice to you and you act like a jerk" which is the SAME thing she was doing the day before but I assume she misses me or something and I let it go

[Opinion Owner]

Mmmhmm...look like you got yourself a girl friend and you don't even know it lmao...kidding

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, there's a possibility that she's not interested in you that way.

Maybe she dealing with a few things that has her being moody.

Just continue to be a friend to her. Let her know that if ever she needs to talk you will be there for her,and how your willing to be a sounds board when ever she needs one and just leave it at that.

There's nothing you can really do, unless your willing to think outside the box to get to the core of this issue you two are having.

[Asker]

I'm not too worried about that. I mean, there's always the possibility that she might and that's why we just keep patching things up. We've had some very emotional moments (especially when we are mad at each other) but even with that, we just go on like nothing happened. Sometimes when I see her reaction when I want to "get even" and ignore her it just makes my eyes water because I KNOW we can get along and have fun and yet we come to this. Its just weird because I've never had this happen

[Opinion Owner]

The crazy thing is unfortunately.. This is kind of normal in a relationship aspect .

There's always a person who's a lot more emotional, and one who's more steady emotionally..

As long as nothing is intentional, and it seems to be a form of true communication between the two of you, the teasing is fun..and etc..us mean the issue you have is that she gets emotional to often?.

But it's not like your walking on eggshells?..and why do you feel like you have to get even with her?

[Asker]

Well, I mean to get even like if she is mad one day and OK and talkative the next, sometimes I want to be mad at her just to get even. I don't really do it anymore because I feel worse afterward. Its not like I'm walking on eggshells because we know each other and we have developed a little more tolerance. I think its funny that both of us, once we do something that we know is irritating,we'll try to have a nice conversation 5 min later just to "test" if the other didn't get mad, its weird haha

[Opinion Owner]

Lol.. Funny, that's cute , so the cycle continued, cause then she will just pay you back, for ignoring her

See I feel that OK maybe she going threw something mood "girl thang" etc..

So when she ignore you maybe she's busy or whatever. You in return do it cause you being malicious?or do I dare say" jealous" and act out..and cause her feeling to get hurt.

I like her ! :-)

she keeps you busy? Lol, I bet all this goes unsaid between you two huh?

[Opinion Owner]

Just curious to know have you found out this women is in love with you yet?

[lovelysecrets33]

Ok so you guys are becoming emotionally attached would be my guess to your question why you would want to stay in communication with this girl.

And judging from your last few sentences I think you like each other also.

[harveykinkle]

Ugh. I hate when that happens!

So much fun though :)

Maybe it's that their attractiveness greatly out weighs every annoying thing they do and we look past it!

I have one right now! I truly want to slap him most of the time but I still dig him!

[Asker]

Really? Well, that's exactly how she feels, she wants to slap me and goes around telling people "you see what I have to put up with?" and things like that. So in your case, what does he have to do so you still dig him but you don't feel like you want to slap him? It may work on my end lol

[harveykinkle]

He's SO HOT! I guess I like him because he makes me feel him. He makes me happy, he pisses me off, he annoys me and he's really nice sometimes. The main thing is I FEEL him. It's just interesting and not boring I guess :)

[katkaintkwit]

Nothing wrong with arguing. It's possible to argue but get along.

[Asker]

Really? I don't think I've even had that much patience with anybody, its weird :P

[katkaintkwit]

lol yeah. Me and my boyfriend are the same way. He's an ass but I love him lol

[herkisses]

To me she likes you more than just a friend..