What makes a girl a pathetic loser?

[feelsbadmang]

In your opinion, what makes a girl a pathetic loser?

[WoIIie]

I'd simplify what I define as "losers" into two categories: those who do not stand up for themselves and accept circumstance, and those who are arrogant and feel entitled to circumstance.

An example for the first type would be a girl who stays in a relationship that is very one-sided (abusive) or is significantly less than what she desires/deserves. She lacks the self respect to stand up and say "this is my life and I deserve better" then walk away. That's a definite loser in my book.

An example of the second type would be a girl who never shoulders any blame. If she's over 30 and single, it's because there are no "good" guys out there. If she gets an earful for her selfish antics, she gives an earful back basically saying "my opinion is the only one that matters in this world and I wasn't even listening to yours". The world always gets the last word, and that word is LOSER.

[Anonymous]

A lot of what titi said I agree with except the job one sometimes it's hard to find a job.And I want to add a girl who flirt with everyone and a girl who flirts with everyone while in a relationship/cheats.

[toulouse]

i think its pathetic when people feel better about themselves by asking/ answering questions like these about women and men.

other than those who (intentionally or not) inflict pain in exchange for power, there is good and strength in everyone.. sometimes it needs channeling.

dragging people down doesn't help anyone get there faster,

[feelsbadmang]

No, you're wrong, you idiot. I was asking this question because I want to find out if I have traits of a pathetic person.

[Titi18]

Wow I have never read a question like that about a girl.

Uselly its a guy lol

Ummm lets see a girl who has no job and nothing going for herself

A girl who settle down for jerks over and over again, a girl

Who allows herself to get played and cheated on

To me that's a pathetic girl

[Anonymous]

1: acting like a slave for him, 2: indecisive 3: bad at communicating 4: low self esteem and constant crying over little things 5: dependent and 6: insecurity/jealousy

[Anonymous]

For me, it's sluts, gold diggers, and druggies. That's it.

[Anonymous]

Nothing