Yes you are attractive to bule. if I were a single guy I'd take you on a date. I married an Indonesian girl so I can't. I do however, understand what you are trying to do. The thing is there really isn't that many expats where. You may see plenty but really there's not. when I visit Jakarta I can go to the mall and see a hundred gorgeous girls and only a few expats. Some of those expats are in committed relationships. So just want fun and are happy to go to bloke M every night and pick up a different Ayam every night. Some may only be interested in Christian girls for serious relationships. Those left have way more opportunities than they can handle. So, you have to be assertive and you have to cast a wide net. Bule are used to people being more outgoing than many Indonesians. Also, expats are used to random Indonesians coming up to them and asking them to take a photo with them. It's perfectly okay to initiate things with them. Find ways to get in front of them. Offer to teach bahasa Indonesia. Hell, go ahead and ask for a photo. We always say yes. Also, get on dating websites and make yourself available to thousands of white guys in other countries. Actually send some messages to men. There are lots of nice western guys not having any success with western girls and they need to know you exist. A lot of them do know Indonesia exists. You live in a beautiful country with that's very diverse and has an interesting history. How many guys here know your country is safe to visit? Let them know it is.
The point I'm trying to make is you can't just wait for some expat to walk up to you at a coffee shop and ask you on a date. The odds of that happening are close to nil. Most white guys don't know you exist. It isn't your looks. They just don't know you and that you have more to offer them than just a pretty face. Most Indonesian girls have no idea that they have more to offer a man than other girls and for some reason you all seem to like us way more than any other country. It's a perfect match. Don't keep it a secret.
I would have to admit to being naive in this category. As I honestly would not be able to tell you, if you are Indonesian or not. Not because I don’t see a difference but I just don’t know enough about different cultures and there people to say where one is from.
I will say I have met and seen pictures of Indonesian girls that I was told that they were as well as many other “races” of women and can say Caucasian, Indonesian, Native American, Spanish, Hispanic, African American, Asian etc. they all have some very sex, some very beautiful and some ugly mean women and never found myself asking what they are in the course of a conversation, and have never hooked up with any of them find out.
Hummm maybe they don’t like white guys?
Well, i should tell you that Caucasians have principal thats they won't and they can't talk to people whom they have no idea who he or she is. The first thing you have to do to make him wants to talk to you is be his friend. Make him know who you are and you have to get along with you then caucasian will be your friend. Or you can talk to them as friend, even if it will be found hard to mke friends with them. But its alright, if you talk to him. But remember it could be kinda awkward for him. Cause he doesn't know you yet and thats the first conversation you have ever made with him.
And dont be creepy by asking their phone numbers, address, or about personal life, except you have known him wel before. Its kinda different when you are making friends with caucasian and indonesian. Cause i have tried making friends with Caucasians around indonesia and i made it!
I'm sorry but I think you're shallow if you just think that "look" is the only things that matter in a relationship because it's not. Yea, your beautiful place probably would attract a lot of people but only personality that makes a person stay with you. So that's such a pity if you have good appearance but having bad personality. I'm also not that pretty but there are few expats who wants/interested to talk to me because they think I'm nice and fun to talk to and I don't act like I'm chasing on them like most Indonesian girls do on expat.
you must to know, I am Indonesian, Javanese..
I want to tell you a few things, you must to know about Indonesian women
they will not have sex outside of marriage..
they prioritize loyalty to their partner and are maintaining her body to her husband one day :)
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They're okay. The real questions are this. Why do Asian women want so much to be accepted by European, Australian and American white men? Why do Asians , some Blacks and Latinos hate themselves so much that they become whitewashed and bleach their skin? Why do they think that just because a person has lighter skin that they're better?
Westerners (men in particular) visit that region of the world for the sex tourism
They aren't looking for wives, they are looking for cheap thrills and aren't going to be terribly picky about it.
I believe indonasians girls are pretty,slim,sexy and above all they respect themselves never letting themselves fall for someone whose just into sex..I've a friend in jakarta she's very pious.
I think Indonesian girls are stunning, I have a friend from Indonesia who says the guys there don't think she's pretty and she's actually beautiful.
I've never met an Indonesian girl. I bet there are nice and attractive ones just like with girls all over the world.
White men create forums like this where they pretend to be women and will push white supremacist jargon; For example : I'm Asian and prefer white men or white do all Asian women love us whitemen so much? they are really insecure losers and pathetic.
Let's see. . . Petra Verkaik is half Indonesian and she's been at the top of my turn ons list for years!
I don't know much about Indonesian girls to be honest
I can like them I guess.
Maybe they are shy or fear of rejection.
Those girls are rather chiobu
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