Sitting on a guys lap?

[Tykies]

Which position do you guys prefer? Do you like it when the girl put all her weight? Is there a point when it gets awkward? Also girls any tips?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I generally like it when a girl is sitting across my legs when I'm in an armchair, when her ass is slightly to the side, and her legs draped across mine, if we're just sitting together causal. it also means I can see her face, and it leaves her easy access for kisses. That's generally my favourite. If we're alone I prefer her to have her legs around my waist, sitting nearly crotch to crotch, and face to face, so we can be intimate.

These are just my own personal preferences, though. Not everyone will agree with them.

[MrOracle]

Sit on his legs, not on his crotch. The latter can be painful.

So, one of three positions:

- Straight outwards, but with your butt a bit forward so you aren't crushing his crotch. You can lean back against him, and wrap his arms around your stomach.

- Sideways, with your legs across his. This is probably the most common, because you can talk and look at each other easily.

- Face-to-face, straddling him. Obviously, this generally isn't acceptable in public, but fine if you're alone.

[Stazz76]

There aren't any rules about this - it all depends on how he feels at the time. Ask him what he likes! It's ALWAYS OK to ask questions!

One position to avoid is when a guy has an erection and is lying on his back, you don't want to put weight through your sitting bones (ischial tuberosities) on a penis because it will be resting over his pubic bone, and could get crushed between two bones.

[Dionysos]

It really depemds on how heavy you are. If you're a lot amaller than him, settle right in. Spread your weight across as much leg area as you can though to avoid pinching nerves over time.

A lot of his comfort depends on his position and what muscle groups, bones and ligaments are supporting you.

Straddling his lap is the best for comfort, but don'tdo that unless you want his naughty bits going into yours shortly. Guys take it as a come on.

[VeohTV]

The more heavy she is the more exciting it is. I don't mean I should feel like I'm being squashed, then that would feel awkward.

It would also feel awkward if it was a female friend, who one day decides she wants to sit on my lap, knowing me and her are just friends.

[archn]

It depends how heavy she is. I can feel it when my girl sits on my lap, and it can be rough, so if you are bigger, I wouldn't do it often, but not to say never.

[UncleScrooge]

I don't like people sitting on me, and I never understood why girls feel the need to sit on a guy's lap.

[vittles]

sitting on the face is better than sitting on the lap

[1inmillion]

I like when girls SIT ON FACE. (*Must be 18 or older)

[SaltandVinegar]

I like it when she sits face to face with her legs wrapped around me so we can look at each other and kiss

[Anonymous]

Oh yes sitting in the Lap Should be heavy and pleasurable

[Anonymous]

If a girl sat in my lap, I'd push her off. I want my personal space respected.

[Dionysos]

You're a virgin.

Don't deny it. :D

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I am, what wrong with that?

[Anonymous]

I perfer she lays accross me and holds me.