99.99 times it is because I'm attracted to the girl. Like Cro said it is more my thoughts about what she could thinking. I rely a lot in logic and relationship and many women are far from it. Here I am trying to get this free thinking human being to see me in the kind of light that could make me her potential mate. It is nerve wrecking because we can't control the situation. May be it is me, but you are I'm never quite sure how a girl will respond. Everybody is their own person and most people think that they are cool and special ( which we are). It would make anyone nervous to think that the one person you share you feelings with or whom you develop a crush for may not see it too.
Other reasons included mixed signals from a girl. Part of the confidence needed to approach and ask out a girl come from the signs and encouragement she give me. if she has been too subtle or ambiguous the situation may become awkward. Personally I'm a really clumsy person so around girls I tend to focus too hard on not being a fool which becomes unnatural and leads to nervousness
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Nothing makes me nervous around women. Men make men nervous because they are thinking "WILL SHE ACCEPT ME ENOUGH FOR ME TO PENIS HER?!" which has less to do with you and more to do with themselves. I know, that's the wrong answer, so let me try again:
1. Your face. So pretty.
2. Your hair. So shiny.
3. Your smile. So lovely.
4. Your touch. So serene.
5. Your smell. So intoxicating.
Can I have BA now?
I've noticed most guys get nervous when they have the mentality that a girl is "out of their league". I think that's people in general though.
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