What makes a guy nervous around a girl??

[Anonymous]

What makes a guy nervous around a girl? Is it a good sign

[steveguitar]

I get so nervous around girls that I have never really known any girls until recently and now I have left the job that I knew them from and I didn't say anything like goodbye to them or tell them I was leaving so I know hat if I see them again that I am going to get some angry responses. But about your question ... I have always been nervous around everybody even my family, because I can't be who I am around them. With girls it goes to another level, I can barely speak especially if I find them attractive. Plus not knowing where my life is headed makes me very nervous about life itself. Then my social anxiety has pretty well kept me a homebody or later learning to go out to places like movies bars and concerts alone, which I think will scare girls away because I couldn't relate to their amazing life of friends and traveling and understanding life. So just about everything about me makes me nervous to speak to girls, plus I never know if any have ever liked me anyways. I have always tried to avoid people, it's the only thing hat I have ever been good at in my life.

[detwiler]

Well, speaking as a guy who is a basket case when it comes to things like this, its like this mentality. If you like some of the simple things in nature, you probably like butterflies. I almost see it as, girls are this other great side to humanity that I don't understand, and I because of that I am hesitant to any one thing I might say or do. And (similar to a butterfly being comfortable on my finger) to be able to be the person that someone I like would want to be around, feels almost impossible to know. In a sense, I feel like I'm one step away from scaring off the beautiful butterfly. I hope this makes sense, guys get nervous because when they know they like a girl, they want to protect their actions that would make her disinterested.

[Anonymous]

It's definitely a good sign because it shows that he cares and doesn't wanna mess up. I think it's cute to be honest. Sometimes just talking to a girl makes a guy nervous. So really the list of things he could be nervous about is endless.

[Anonymous]

I know I'm not a guy but when a guy is nervous around a girl then it is a most likely a sign that he is attracted to her, so yes I'd say that it is a good sign.

[Anonymous]

when she is too hot or too smart or something that hinders his self esteem

[AshBrown]

The "desirability" of the girl. The fact that you know that 100 other giys would want to be around that girl talking to her.

[jmowen]

I'm very shy and nervous around girls that I like. If he's like me, then he's definitely interested in you. See how he acts around other people. Does he act differently around them?

[posted]

What makes you nervous about a guy, is it a good sign?

Answer your own question...

She's new to him, attractive or he likes her, or he's a nervous guy.

[Anonymous]

He likes her.

Or he finds her attractive (even though he doesn't want to date her).

Or he's nervous around girls in general.

Or he's nervous around people in general or strangers in general.

It's not necessarily a good sign (or a bad sign).

[lavalamp87]

its good: that he likes you

its bad: that he will be way afraid to do anything about it

[doctorwhofan23]

I am shy so girls make me nervous anyways if I like her I am beyond nervous.

[Anonymous]

Genuine feelings or infatuation if he does not know you.

[Anonymous]

When she has a out of control ego

[aaaae2e]

what does that mean? if a girl is too confident, you get nervous around her?

[Anonymous]

When she's hot

[Anonymous]

Her diamond earrings