What does it mean when a guy jokes about having sex with you?

[Anonymous]

He's my guy friend, I liked him for a few months and he knows how I feeel about him. He's never pressured me into having sex but he always jokes about it. He recently got a girl friend but he still makes dirty jokes with me and he asks to see me a lot even though he has a girlfriend :S

[james2023]

TBH he is probably keeping you as his 'bit on the side' - so that if he breaks up with his current girlfriend he can then immediately use you as a rebound (i.e have sex with you then drop you like a pile of bricks)

No offense intended, but I have lost count of the number of times I have seen this happen. Think about all the questions you see which are like "omg I like this guy but he has a girlfriend helppppp"...It sounds like you are getting into that kind of situation. Don't!

[NitroBlade]

It means given the opportunity, he'd have sex with you. Maybe less so if he has a girlfriend (I don't know him), but if he jokes about it, it means he thinks about it. It's crossed his mind, so he flirts jokingly to not offend you. He's attracted to you basically. Not sure how, and if he has feelings for you or not. However it's there physically at the very least, which is a lot for a guy.

That's what I get out of it.

Again, I don't know him.

[Paris13]

If you both like each other, why is he with another girlfriend? It sounds as though he still has the hots for you...Maybe the next time "he asks to see you", talk about it---and I don't mean with "dirty jokes" or "having sex." Seems like your "guy friend" wants to be your "boy friend", sweetie.

[kheserthorpe]

Guys, generally, would have sex with a larger group of women then those they'd actually date.

If he knows you liked him but went out with someone else, you're in the 'i'd screw her but wouldn't commit to her monogamously' category, most likely.

[cazza3]

This

[RandomStudent]

If he joking about sex, he has probably put you in the friend zone.

[Siddhartha]

Why do you say that?

[Anonymous]

he actually wants to have sex with you