How do you stay awake after sex? I sleep like a baby!

[sexyasianboi26]

Ive never seen her so mad in her life. I was already exhausted from work prior to sex, yet I still managed to find energy deep within me to perform the deed. After we had sex, we talked for a bit and I fell asleep.

I wokeup when she was screaming on her way out and slammed the door :0

[KBob93]

That's actually a very common thing for men. I heard from someone with a degree in psychology that men fall asleep after coitus due to a chemical in their brain that causes it. The purpose for that chemical to cause a guy to sleep after sex is so that he stays with the woman and doesn't leave her right after sex.

So in a way I thought that was sweet to find that out that men are biologically designed to not abandon a woman. Some men need to adhere to that in other ways, lol.

Girls, on the other hand, who aren't aware of this probably get offended by it because she could take it as a sign of the guy just wanting sex and no afterplay, pillow talk or interest in paying attention to her, when scientifically that is not the case at all. This is another huge blue-pink misunderstanding.

I see it as an excuse to turn it into a spoon, then both parties would most likely be happy. If you're going to drift off then maybe slip your arm around her before the zzzs come on.

[glitterberryalisa]

After sex I like to eat and sleep, in that order. Soo not sure what her deal is, but she should understand that most normal people just want to sleep too, its tiring and you just worked all day too lol. I'm sure she'll come back apologizing soon enough.

[MAJ4251]

I think it's kind of silly to be mad about something like that. Everyone is different. Some people get sleepy, some don't.

I personally don't get sleepy. I'm pretty wide awake afterward. Same goes for my boyfriend. Lol

[Arrowdynamics]

I drink coffee right before foreplay begin so while I'm down there doing my thing she has an orgasm and the coffee has time to kick in. When the big show is done and over you'll still be woke and ready for round two and she'll be the one exhausted. I suggest you try a House Blend then a Peruvian if the blend isn't strong enough, then Columbian if the Peruvian isn't strong enough, that Columbian is very strong. Remember drink it right before foreplay. She'll be happy and you both will be tired.

[dreamtime]

I hear ya... but some women want to cuddle some which I can respect but if I lie still long enough, I'll fall asleep.. its just what happens even more so after being exhausted after work prior to.

[Titi18]

My ex use to have sex with me for

7 minuets 10 minutes max and come right away

Than that idiot use to fall asleep like

A little bitch

Biggest turn off ! Imagine when

He/you turn 40 you guys won't even be able

To please your woman for shit

I ended it for good I feel bad for your girl

[Exiled]

you are such a nice girl...

[Titi18]

Thank you:)

[Jay0524]

Lol how to look like a massive bitch 101 with your host Titi, hah but no really if i had to deal with you id probably WANT to be done in 7 mins he's not missing out on much im sure... your personality shows it.

[TheOneTurv]

why would she be screaming at you? lol Not talking to you or something?

anyway to your question, I would just keep a convo going I guess because she is apparently mad at you for not talking to her? I don't really think there is a way to STAY up after sex. Not your fault tho because you were beat before hand.

But I would ask her about it ;P

Good luck bro!

[Stacyzee]

Try not giving her sex at all and see how mad she gets.

I'm sure after that she will appreciate all of your efforts.

You did nothing wrong.

Some people just can't be satisfied ':'

[Stacyzee]

Or better yet, give her half of a hump and then say, "I'm finished" and roll over and go to bed.

[glitterberryalisa]

hahah love the "im finished" idea

[Theguyoverthere]

Sounds like she wants attention way too much. She may be one of those girls who if you don't answer a text within 5 minutes, you'll "be in deep trouble." So what I am basically trying to say is... she is extremely clingy.

[FaerieGirl]

I have no clue why she would be mad. I've never had sex, but after making out for a long time my boyfriend and I love to just cuddle and nap. Id imagine it would be the same with sex. That sounds rather strange for her to react that way.

[Casper286]

I honestly don't understand why she'd freak out like that. After sex I just like to cuddle up and take a nap. If I ain't tired after sex, you didn't do your job well enough :P That chick needs to take a chill pill.

[Anonymous]

Don't worry about it. She's probably on the rag or pissed about something else not sex-related. The real problem is if she stopped giving up the booty and screams and yells even more and borrows your car with out asking and fucks it up.

[sexyasianboi26]

lol she can't drive my car, its stick shift ;D

[Phoenix98]

You don't for guys afterward we feel tired and want to go to sleep because chemicals are released through out our body that makes us tired. I don't understand why she is so mad its just natural for guys to fall asleep afterwards.

[Anonymous]

Wow! Take that as a red flag that whatever you do is not going to be enough... Sorry to have to put it out there like that... Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong...

[yawst]

I think you're woman is somewhat stupid I'm sorry to say.

[InvisibleNinja]

I think its cute if a guy falls asleep after sex ;)

[InvisibleNinja]

If you want a proper nap, you can always come to my house ;)

[Bluegameroyon]

your profile description and your words don't match.

[InvisibleNinja]

What do you mean

[thatguy67]

Yeah it does, she can place his head on her breasts like a pillow.

[InvisibleNinja]

uhm ok... lol

[QueenPolo]

I'm out like a light after sex, especially if it was really good.

[snowboarder720]

sounds like a real b*tch.

[Anonymous]

Drink coffee before sex

[Theguyoverthere]

I don't know about that. That can mess up his bladder during sex and if his metabolism is high(which is for a lot of thinner people), he'll have to stop midsex to be using the bathroom and such.

[beachgirl1995]

After sex I'm either very hungry or very tired.

[DivaMonae]

Round 2 ;)

[DivaMonae]

But no, seriously.

I get it work is exhausting, and you did do the deed. Many people are exhausted after sex...

It's just she wasn't tired and wanted to talk or cuddle, and if you fall asleep having sex with her, in her mind, you basically just said she didn't do anything for you it was boring.

Or wemon are only good at two things and that's either being in the kitchen or the bedroom. Talking is definitely not one of them.

[purplelavender]

Same here