Over the shoulder looks? Ladies?

[Anonymous]

I was walking behind a girl today, and she looked over her shoulder at me twice.

Was she interested? Or did she think I was looking at her bottom or something?

Any thoughts ladies? Do you do this? And why please?

[Surfinforlife]

Every time a girl did the shoulder look to me while passing ended up flirting with me through body language if I saw her again. It's happened to me hundreds of times. I'm not in the normal category of good looking, I model/fitness model and what not so I'm blessed with good looks. Girls do "check" me out, but us guys check them out too. I've seen some girls that were so beautiful I couldn't compose myself.. I would look over the shoulder while passing thinking to myself "Wow that girl is gorgeous" and then move forward.

But it really doesn't matter if you're good looking or not, what matters to them is if you're attracted to them or not. I've seen ugly looking guys with hot girls and vice versa. It just depends if their is attraction there or if you're their type. So yes girls do the over the shoulder look sometimes cause you're eye candy to them. Girls do that, especially if they're with a group of girls. It means they're single and ready to mingle. Sometimes they do that cause they think they know you or you look familiar, other times maybe you're incredibly ugly looking. Or maybe you stand out to them that could be attractive or neutral.

Here's the deal.. If you want to know if she's interested, you should make eye contact. If she smiles and looks away or holds eye contact, that is a green light my friend. You'll know if she's interested, just pay attention to her body language, that is key.

[Surfinforlife]

what matters is if you're attractive TO THEM*****

[Asker]

Very very good advice, great detail, great everything. Thanks for BA my friend.

[Surfinforlife]

Anytime bud, I was in your shoes once and I know what its like. Just pay attention to small details. Eye contact with smile, holding eye contact with smile,she keeps trying to hold your glance or trying to keep you noticing that she's noticing you. Girls don't really engage with conversation if they're attracted to you, they're taught that men should do that. All they do is send you signals through body language. It's their way of saying YOU'RE SEXY and I'M INTERESTED. Some approach. thx for BA!

[Asker]

You're welcome.

[stillagoodgirl]

Ehh I wouldn't say we think its the guy's job to talk, some girls do it anyways but are usually aggressive. I usually kind of wait for the guy to talk since I'm not sure if he'll ignore me. I'm better at holding the convo if the guy initiates contact

[stillagoodgirl]

You got her to turn her head so she probably found you attractive unless she was looking back with a Dirty look

[Asker]

She looked nervous she did it really fast, she didn't look directly at me I don't think, but her hair was in the way.

[stillagoodgirl]

Ohh OK then she probably was nervous that you'd catch her looking

[Asker]

Idk, at first it seemed like she was trying to catch me looking at her butt, but after she looked at me the first time I clearly wasn't, and she ajusted her shirt after the second look so.

I was thinking hey, you're the one looking at me lol, I'm not looking at your bum.

[stillagoodgirl]

lol most would give a dirty look to see if you're staring there, not look nervous

[nametag]

If I do that, it's to get a second look. It means I like what I see.

[Asker]

You do what the girl in my question did? It wasn't because you thought the guy was looking st your butt?

[Asker]

*at

[nametag]

No. Every time I do this, it is definitely to get another look. :)

[Asker]

I was trying not to even look her way lol. I was thinking she totally thinks I'm like starring at her butt or something.

Guess I should have looked at her :/ She was cute

[lalalolita]

If she looks at you more than once she's interested.

[Anonymous]

She wanted to see if you were checking out her but