Is silence a girls loudest cry?

[Anonymous]

is it true that silence a girls loudest cry. and that you can always tell when she's really hurt when she starts ignoring you?

[vmw2008]

I think this is true. With my ex, he'd done things that really hurt me, but when I was still interested in working it out I'd cry, yell, try to talk it out. Finally, he did something to really hurt me. The straw that broke the camel's back I suppose, and I was done. I said nothing. I remember thinking that when we broke up I'd be destroyed, but I wasn't. I broke up with him, didn't yell, cry, or get upset. I didn't answer any calls or texts after. I was just over it because I'd been hurt so badly.

[FierceMegan2]

Sometimes. One of best friends is hurting me right now, and I haven't stayed silent. I reached out to him and I want to talk it out with me, but he keeps shutting me down. I want to cry, but I won't.

He's acting more like the girl, except for the crying part.

[CommieDearest]

YES. I can't stand to be ignored so I never ignore people unless I don't care anymore. Once I don't care anymore, you're fucked. Because I probably won't ever care again.

[missjane23]

Yes. That is the point when you have lost her. If she stops getting upset or responding she has made the decision to cut the cord.

[Iveloved_ivelost]

Yes that's exactly true, we can't always cry and be emotional towards them so being silent works for both ways. It's pretty emotional.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Oh yes... if I ignore a guy and make it obvious then yes. I am likely hurting inside and want to avoid the person to get hurt even more.

[rotarymoon]

you mean for the guy to get hurt more?

[XRabbitHeartX]

what do you mean?

[Anonymous]

yes, if a girl is ignoring you, especially after being nice to you that means you fucked up something

[plaank]

Umm.. it doesn't necessarily mean she's hurt. She might just want some space or not be interested anymore.

[misszara2u]

It is for me. If a guy feels like I've suddenly stopped caring or lost interest in hi then chances are I'm hurt and waiting for him to show he cares at least a little bit.

[Simonettaria]

Usually, but sometimes she can be giving you a hint that she wants to take a break for a while

[Anonymous]

Yep. It means she's so done she's not even going to try and explain anything or argue. That's how you know it's serious

[Anonymous]

Yes but try and talk to her and if she says nothing with an attitude she is mad or maybe she is shy around u depending on how we'll u know each other

[Klaatu51]

yup sounds true to me

[Anonymous]

My personal favorite quote about this type of thing is

The deepest waters make the least noise

[Anonymous]

Yesssss if I don't answer you that means I am beyond pissed or super sad

[Anonymous]

That's true for everyone

[Anonymous]

depends on the girl, some yes some no

[CrazyInWonderland]

Yeah