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She's a cashier who works at the local coffee shop. It's safe to say she's 55-65 years old. I'm only in my late 30's and young enough to be her daughter.

So for days she's been addressing me as ma'am. I let it slide but it was bothering me. It's as if she felt I was her age or older by addressing me as that.

So I politely said to her "I'd appreciate if you didn't call me ma'am I'm only 39. It's an outdated word." It was in a nice calm voice, not rude or nasty. I also expressed to her that I hope I'm not offending her.

So then she looks up at me and I guess realized she made an assumption and how being called that is offensive (like so many bastards do in society, assuming ) and she says sorry and she'll call me "doll" it was playful, her response.

The thing is I don't want special treatment or my ass being kissed whenever I get coffee from there. I simply don't wanna be addressed as ma'am. Up north ma'am is only used on women that are seniors or almost a senior. It's not used the same way people use it in the south.

But man I'm just glad I spoke up.

Everyone in my neighborhood seems to think its the perfect time to start decorating now for fall/Halloween😆

What’s your thoughts on this? Also how big of an age gap is too much?

Biden refused a fair debate. He would ONLY debate if it was under HIS rules

which included the debate being hosted by a leftist cnn along with a bunch of other rules that all favored HIM, 20 mins breaksfor his brain not to overheat, Leftist moderator, No audience (the only thing that was good was the mute but even THAT was in HIS favor to prevent him from incoherent ramblings)

now, the same media that didn’t post how he was so chicken to debate trump a fair debate and I my under his Rules, is attempting to say trump is somehow “scared to debate Kamala”

Trump said he WOUlD debate her and now Kamala is chickening out because she too wants a leftist EVErYTHING.

what shitty party does this? Only democrats, the same ones that threw the democratic people’s votes in the trash to install a candidate if THeIR preference not what the people voted for.

are democrats ever fair?
seems like the REAL threat to democracy is them.

If a woman once beg and never chase the man (like talking, meeting them) anymore after they broke up. How long a man regret a breaking up?

Does the amount of money a woman has increase your attraction to her and consideration of her for a relationship?

The women are equally beautiful or the older one is more beautiful.

I prefer a high pony because of the heat here usually. I must admit that I do personally like the look rather than a lower pony. Which do you prefer? High pony or low pony?

I don't. I think we are potentially compatible with any number of people, and are limited by logistics. Once we decide, that person becomes our "soul mate".

I think the concept of soul mates is a romanticized Hollywood myth and can lead to infidelity and a tendency to second-guess when things get tough. After all, if things aren't perfect, what if we made a mistake?

I think that the odds of finding a "soul mate" out of 8 billion people, and that "soul mate" being in proximity to us, is highly unlikely. I think it's even more unlikely that most people who marry would find their soul mate with those odds. What do you think?

Last summer my "boyfriend" made a joke about my weight. He apologized and claimed he loves and accepts me. This summer, a few days ago, he made a comment about how I'm eating on webcam. Then today I said I wanted to order wings and pizza or burgers and he suggests that I order a chicken salad. So I'm convinced he doesn't want me as a girlfriend and gets upset when I suggest that we break up. Or maybe he wants me to break up with him.