What's your personality "type" for your ideal boyfriend/girlfriend?

Question

When choosing a partner, what personality traits do you look for?

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Respectful, goofy, talkative, motivating, supportive, protective, great listener, humble,  and sweet. I dont like sarcasm. I dont like when people are overly empathetic. I don’t like dark/crude humor. I dont like having to constantly validate insecurities. I don’t like to debate. I don’t want someone taking advantage of me physically nor emotionally. I don’t like cockiness. I don’t like overprotectiveness.

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

Sweet gentle mindful argumentative curious direct

Mark987 · Accepted Answer

I need a woman now that can get along with my friends and family. That can take a joke and as well as can dish it too. Someone like a girl next door type. Can laugh at Dave Chappele jokes... and yet stilll be serious when the time comes.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Out of those options, it's between sweet/gentle and mindful/empathetic.

I think I slightly lean more towards mindful/empathetic, but I would assume that a person that's mindful & empathetic would also be sweet & gentle 😅

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Above all else, I want a partner who is kind and gentle, and who also has a high IQ.

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

Mindful/empathetic, hands down.

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

In my case, the most important ones would be a combination of quiet, gentle and empathetic. Now... The single most important trait would be "loyal", but I'd expect a girl with the three traits listed above to be loyal anyway. I mean, an empathetic and gentle girl should both know how I'd feel if she cheated on me and be unwilling to hurt me. Well, unless I hurt her, but if I met a quiet, gentle, empathetic girl, I would probably commit seppuku if I hurt her anyway. I'd also like her to be intellectual and driven, but that's something we could work on together, since I'm not really driven enough myself right now.

Basically... Have You ever listened to Meet Me On The Battlefield by Svrcina? Yeah, that's the kind of Girl I'd look for. Even though a battlefield is mentioned, the singer's voice is nothing short of soothing, and all the other traits of the character She impersonates (though given Her other works, I'd say it's pretty much the real Her) are visible through the outlook on the world She presents and Her resolve regarding this world. Some of these traits might be evenmore clear in Svrcina's No Matter What They Say though, so I guess it should be considered secondary reference material.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

So far I have only dated guys who were sort of mean. I really would like to date a guy who is nice, mild mannered who is emotionally smart and loves to cuddle.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

I hate those boxes really  😩😆, especially when it forces me at one  super restrictive  choice.  Ranting . Grmbl. Grmbl. I don't vote. My "ideal" is the personality type featuring  Mindfulness and Wit, please . That is, when I live in theory,  do I live in theory? Theoretically not . So, things get much different. It's not so much a problem,  my heart will find its way, anyway .

dragoblack · Answer

I Look for someone i can vibe with comfortably, that understands boundaries, acknowledges her insecurities & bad habits, and makes an effort to get rid of them and reduce them. I find a healthy mindset attractive. I also like nerdy girls that like to craft, and women who like to work out while still openly being a nerd. Dedication & passion is sexy, but health is still important. No one likes a slob or someone who won't take care of themselves. I also like when women understand relationships should be like "best friends with romantic benefits".

Also, a woman who knows how to control her anger is very attractive. For example; how peach from the early mario Olympics games, used to rage like a rage-gamer beating the shite out of a controller, then throwing it; but in the recent Mario Olympics games, she takes a deep breath, lets it out slowly, then uses that energy to hype herself up for the next game. Now that's attractive to see.

MicahRaine · Answer

Mindful and empathetic 100% Being sweetness and gentleness are good, but they are lesser forms of empathy. A mindful person is much easier to work through issues with.

Quidthonian · Answer

Sweet and gentle but also assertive where she knows what she wants, and is not afraid to ask for it.

RebelinSteel · Answer

I don’t think I have an ideal type. I tend to have fun and crazy lol

sawno · Answer

Uplifting, chatty / enthusiastic, deep thinker, caring, giver, wants to solve conflict rather than fight. That sort of stuff.

Anonymous · Answer

Mindful and empathetic

I was once in a abusive relationship. So empathy is the first trait I look for in anyone that comes into my life. Empathetic people have a strong conscience and don't abuse people. Mindful people are usually deep thinkers and caring by nature.

edmwarrior · Answer

i'm pretty open with my preferences. I've liked shy girls and confident girls equally. One thing that's a deal breaker to me is empathy or kindness. If she's rude to the waiter/waitress, I can't.

Anonymous · Answer

I chose the first option, but there is a lot of overlap in the other options, so none are a perfect fit for me.

Jerre · Answer

I like women who like sex as much as I do and wants to have sex as much as I do

Anonymous · Answer

I chose Other because none of those options really fits me. The closest is mindful / empathetic, but I also want him to be confident, assertive and capable.

Juxtapose · Answer

I want a strong but just personality that is like an angel of justice.

Iron_Man · Answer

Sweet talks a lot somebody that brings wisdom tough strong entertaining, good character

WhitneySnow · Answer

The second one, though the first sounds nice too

DrPepper12 · Answer

A partner A challenge  A creator  A explorer A lover A therapist

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

A gentleman, like this! 😍😂

Anonymous · Answer

Other - I like assertive, self-confident, dominant type of girls.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Girlish (but not overly girly!!!), bright but a bit bubbleheaded.

PickleTree303 · Answer

Courageous, humble, detail oriented, compassionate, and strong.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Sounds weird but the best term I have for it is... Motherly. I want a wife and children though.

avery58 · Answer

Controlling & manipulative. Jk 😂 I would say mindful/empathetic

electromagnetic · Answer

I like the toxic delulu kind of personalities.

Richarding · Answer

Status that can be equal to each other with almost 100% compatibility

LiamJHayden · Answer

Sweet, gentle, but will let me know when I'm wrong.

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

Not sure but going by the thumbnail.

Simslover92 · Answer

Definitely Mindful/Empathetic personality

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Chill, loyal, tomboy.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Kamala Harris personality type is what I like in a woman. Funny, welcoming and full of charisma I find very attractive.

Grond21 · Answer

Mindful and empathetic. And that's exactly what I have

JSkye · Answer

Humorous and empathetic

CuriousHubby · Answer

I'll take the top 3 together please!

Idontknow45 · Answer

I like girls who are kind. Open minded. Intelligent. And who've gotten a good sense of humor.

worldscolide · Answer

My wife fits the first three

Anonymous · Answer

Good question By the opinions you give You seem like a nice person asker? Can't say I'm not impressed

A_Wild_Redhead · Answer

I love how the qualities get worse as we go down

Surferboi_02 · Answer

I want wife material so sweet

OfMiceandMen · Answer

A gentle/kind soul.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Sweet/Gentle Personality.

Anonymous · Answer

A true woman of God.

art84 · Answer

Quiet/Shy Personality as I am.

Dongie · Answer

Mindful empathetic

TheLovelyIntrovert · Answer

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