Would you date an asexual who just wanted your company?

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Like they would have sex with you to please you, but they wouldn’t get anything out of it. But they were with you because they wanted your companionship and because they loved you

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

You know that's something that I would have to try because first of all she's trying and she's doing something maybe she doesn't want to do so I would have to make it better for her for doing it and I guarantee she would love it there's just no way in this world that she would not like it..

I know that sounds crazy but I mean that's just who I am if I find something broken I fix it and I guess I really just don't understand all of it but I would do whatever it took to please her for doing what she's doing for me and for the reasons why she's doing it for me but yes I would

Berethor · Accepted Answer

I think so, as long as she have sex with me often enough, I care about body count more than about enthusiasm. Less hard for men to accept it than women, as women tend to be passive.

Account · Accepted Answer

Actually no.
Intimacy is not something they would want and I would want to be with a person who also likes intimacy.
I mean, it is a form of connection to me and if I am with someone I want that connection to be often.
I wouldn't want them to feel forced.
It would feel wrong.

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Accepted Answer

Sure, I'm perfectly fine with that and wouldn't even need the sex from them. As long as we can be intimate in other ways like kissing, hugs and cuddling then I'm all set.

thearchjoker · Answer

if there's no intimacy its just a friendship so no. I don't want a roommate that i can occasionally fuck, I want a girlfriend. If she's suffering every time we make love we aren't making love she's just satisfying my sexual needs but even that is a lot less satisfying when she isn't even into it.

If you want to have a boyfriend/girlfriend as a asexual i would probably be best you find someone who also isn't looking for sex so most likely another asexual. As both would be content to be a couple who never actually do the deed (unless its to make a kid i guess).

hahahmm · Answer

Let's pretend I'm in my 20s and single: Sure, if by "date" you mean you buy me steak dinners & I am free to french kiss hot chicks right in front of you and date them whenever I wish to. Because SURELY you wouldn't get jealous since you're asexual.

MisterWack · Answer

If I hit it off then yes.

“ they would have sex with you to please you “
& “ they wanted your companionship and because they loved you “

Would love that, I’m in a relationship right now and wouldn’t give it up for an asexual relationship though lets say I was single then I’d give her a shot.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Yeah cause I don't love someone for sex, I love them for their company. If one has to find love by sex I honestly feel sorry for them as they have no clue what love is.

Anonymous · Answer

That is a friendship not a romantic relationship. Might as well ask if someone would be friends with someone Asexual.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

My crush thinks she might be a sexual, so I voted YES. I would prefer if she got pleasure from the sex too, but as long as she's still willing to do at least some sexual stuff with me, we could make it work. There are more important things than sex.

Nik1hil · Answer

If she is not going to be excited to fuck. It will feel like I am raping her during sex, it will not be fun. It is better than jerking off, but still, I would not want that. It will feel horrible, nobody likes a dead fish or pillow princess.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

An asexual would have sex with me to... Please me. What the hell? I  wouldn't be pleased at all  then, but I would tell her that  something is very wrong !

Lliam · Answer

We could be friends and do things together occasionally. But I wouldn't call that dating any more that I would call doing things with my male friends dating.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Not really no, mainly as if I did something with someone it would be because they actually wanted to do something.

BetaBucks · Answer

If she let me by poly, sure. I'll have her as a life partner and my other woman as a regular partner.

Hsisjwbwbjsjd · Answer

Yes, because companionship is the thing in a relationship i would be looking for.

strateguy632 · Answer

Impossible that would be friends zone not dating.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

For that I can just be her friend and I wouldn't need to turn it sexual, company isn't a hard thing to give.

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s just too weird men and women are meant to be compassionate and romantic beings together and desire each other and to breed that’s like having a bro buddy being asexual.

Staximus · Answer

She won't be assexual after I make her cum her brains out and forget what planet she's on

A_Wild_Redhead · Answer

I'd feel like an abusive partner, forcing myself on him for my own pleasure while he doesn't really want it. I can't see my self doing that

Anonymous · Answer

No. Because it's only a matter of time before she cheats on me. Yes, you can cheat without sex.

zagor · Answer

As a ski or paddleboarding partner, sure. For a relationship, nah.

Twalli · Answer

I'm pretty sure sex still feels good, thry just don't have that sexual attraction.

Anonymous · Answer

If they loved me, yes. If it was merely for loveless companionship (even if it was a genuine appeal, interest, and appreciation), possibly not.

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Absolutely not.

Anonymous · Answer

i am like that anyways so, sure

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I want children. So, no.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, that would not be fair to her.

Ladsin2 · Answer

Sex is pretty important to a relationship.

Conqueeftador · Answer

We can be very good friends 😉

CaliChick94 · Answer

Is that a friendship lol

MrWolf03 · Answer

Sure, I wouldn't mind 🤷‍♂️

jahaims · Answer

Nope

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Nope

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. Waste of time.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

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