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Of these cities, where would you want to live?

Choose your favorite!

So my boyfriend and I both know each other’s passcodes to our phones, we also have open access to each other phones. He said it’s fine if I want to randomly go through his phone if I ever feel suspicious but I just feel like that’s enabling a toxic behavior no?

Would you rather know if your partner is cheating on you, or would you rather not know at all? Please Let Me Know Why Our Why Not.


Me, I'd much rather know then not!

I live with my mom becuase no guy wants to be my boyfriend and husband and ask for you want to live with me?
😔 I think I’ll be 30-40 and stuck living forever with mom.

I'm writing a story and need to decide whether the main character is justice based or if he is more morally grey.
So far, the character in question has a chaotic, good personality.
Which would you prefer to read about?

My child has ADHD and it's made my life absolutely hell!

Ladies, if a guy smiles in passing or says "hi" or asks you anything random, do you IMMEDIATELY think he's got the hots for you, regardless of any possible factors (including age, culture, and other contextual details)? Why or why not?

(I won't ask if you think he's interested in you if he asks for directions, bc that WOULD actually be a sign of interest. Guys NEVER... EVER want to ask for directions...)

Guys, if a girl says "hi" or asks you for directions or anything random, do you IMMEDIATELY think she's got the hots for you, regardless of any possible factors (including age, culture, and other contextual details)? Why or why not?

Do you think going to college is important?

Something I learned by going to college is that it's huge amount of money being paid for self studies. I learned almost everything from the internet and from studying together with my friends. Surprisingly many of the straight "A" students know nothing beyond the lecture notes, they memorize it then spit it on the exam papers. There are smart students I know who are not good with exams but they have practical knowledge and how to apply the knowledge in the real world, but they don't get recognition.

Seriously I had to go to college to realize that a degree doesn't mean much, and that there are too many smart-asses than actual smart people.

Eight years ago, in the lead-up to the 2016 presidential election, J. D. Vance was a bitter critic of Donald Trump. Publicly, he called the Republican presidential candidate an "idiot" and said he was "reprehensible." Privately, he compared him to Adolf Hitler.

But by the time the former president tapped Vance to be his running mate on Monday, the Ohio native had become one of Trump's most ardent defenders, standing by his side even when other high-profile Republicans declined to do so.

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I'll just put the exchange.

Guy: u have a man

Guy: hi

Me: hi. Wow direct.

Guy: yeah i don't play around.

Me: why do you want to know my status?

Guy: just curious... you don't have to say if you don't want to.

Me: so it was just to satisfy your curiosity? I thought you said you don't play games.

Guy: c ya I don't have time for games.

Me: likewise 👋🏾

did I dodge a bullet or was I playing games? Vote and leave your opinion.

Going to be 30 soon & ask myself why I’m incapable of being in a relationship with a man, people can say that I’m picky but I don’t fully believe I should take all the blame. Female friends I’ve had in the past seem to get dates easier/are okay with putting out & some have unintentionally made me second guess my looks, as they seem to have it easier yet other people have told me I’m equally/more attractive than they are. The last time I “dated” someone was when I was in my early twenties & I’m glad that ended because this guy felt like settling. It justifies that love isn’t blind & it’s better to be alone vs being in a mediocre relationship. I know I’m not all that but I feel like I should be able to attract quality men, all my life I feel like I’ve been invisible to men. I’ve never been approached in person by a guy I’d like to date (don’t count dating apps) & the very few times someone told me that a guy found me attractive (normally a guy I also thought was attractive), they never told me directly & it was always word of mouth.

I feel like I am cursed, that last person I saw in my early twenties was through a dating app & that’s how I’ve met all of these men I’ve met up with. The apps are continually getting worse & they’ve always had a bad rep, getting matches are never an issue it just fails to go anywhere for a number of reasons. And sometimes when I’ve met guys in person & it didn’t work out, there’s just something about them that doesn’t live up to my expectations (even though they look like their pics). I’m unsure if my dating logic is unrealistic, dating apps are the only way for me to meet people & don’t understand how I can be this old & haven’t been in love yet.

The last thing I’ll add is my lack of sex drive, masturbation doesn’t do anything for me & I haven’t had sex since I saw that person back in my early twenties. However, it’s known that some women need to be in a healthy relationship in order to have that *sexual desire*.

How do you react to that?

was bored so made little collages of diff fashion aesthetics i like currently. wanted to know which one (s) other people like the best

the pics & poll options are in order (on the bottom of each pic is the poll option name)