Polls

My boyfriend doesn’t agree with my moms way of thinking (my mom was persistent for my boyfriend to move in with us and sell his place), and if he doesn’t like or agree with something he’s very direct and blunt.
does this mean he dislikes my mom? Or is he just trying to correct her?

He was nice to me. He would cover me for breaks without asking when we first met. He initiated every conversation but didn't initiate conversations with me as much as he did with other people. blushes and smiles, with eye contact when talking (but he blushes around everyone) he told me twice that he missed me when i missed work. Avoided looking at me when around each other sometimes, but then would stare at me and smile at me other times. Tried to touch my hand when grabbing the same thing, i think. I felt like there was tension when we were around each other. He was a flirt, but he flirted with everyone. Would text me first and ask to play video games together (online) offered to hug me as an apology (over text) when i mentioned he did something that was rude. At one point, he was super dry over text, but then he started being more effort when texting soon before he quit, making me thing he wanted a friendship outside of work. Called me his friend. When i would talk to him with his friend around, his friend would smirk at us.
Then, It was his last day of work. I didn't want to make him feel bad, so when i was saying bye, i had nothing to say. he said i looked happy, but i told him i wasn't. He offered me his work shirts, and then before i could respond, he drove away really fast. I texted him and told him i would miss him, and i enjoyed working together and to text me anytime. He said that was sweet and "you too" then he started being REALLY dry over text and taking like 3+ hours to send a one word response. I thought he was just busy, but i got a weird vibe. I ignored that feeling until he decided to stop by where we work, and he waited until i got off to stop by. I texted him about it, and he was dry again. The next day, his friend was VERY standoffish around me. My friend told him i missed him and he said he didn't believe her, and then said "that's nice" Did i do something wrong? So confused

What it really was only kissing involved in the cheating (nothing else, just kissing) or an emotional affair where it's an emotional, romantic bonding. However, they never did anything physically sexual (no intercourse, no oral, no fingering, none of that) so therefore you don't have to worry about any STD.

Can that type of cheating be forgiven? We all know a full-blown affair and sex is obviously worse than kissing and romantic words. I'm wondering because some guy was forgiven for a drunken kiss. It was confirmed by others that it really was only a kiss.

He's been really distant and short lately, so I asked if there was someone else. (I have anxiety and bad past relationships) He said nope just you overthinking. But I can't help shake the feeling something is up.

What is your preferred payment method and why?

If you ask a lot of guys who their best friend is they'll say their girlfriend or wife. However there's a simple experiment you can try to see if that's true. Simply lock both your dog and your wife in the car boot and go for a drive.

Which one licked your face when you opened the boot?

Life is what you make it peeps

And no I don’t have other portions. This is my only chance to be with someone or I’ll stay alone. I don’t want this life alone.

so which if these would you choose if you were me? __________________________________________

Guy 1: tall 5’11 1/2” pretty much 6’ with any shoes on.

Very attractive face and body works out almost everyday. Nice thick dick, brown eyes

does not have a good paying job or money saved up, he only works some days when they need him.

he lives with his mom in a small apartment and she’s very sick.
he is depressed and stressed

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Guy 2: not tall. 5’8 1/2” just average

Not ugly but not super attractive. he has gray beautiful eyes

not fit. Has a round stomach but the rest of his body doesn’t look fat, just big stomach. He doesn’t workout. (never seen his dick so can’t say about that)

He has a good job. He has his own flat. Lives alone in a tourist city very nice.

he has herpes type 1 (from the mouth not genitals) he got this since he was a baby, someone passed it to him so not from sexual interaction.

he works every day and trying to grow and learn more.

So my partner seems like he doesn't listen/ comprehend when i talk about my day or things i bring up. I have mentioned that this bothers me multiple times. He said he will work on it and we will figure out the best way that works for him and us. It seems like he does it everyday and I feel like if I keep talking about it, it will be the same outcome. Thankfully its not just me, he does this with everyone.