Are you a warrior, a champion or a hero?

[DishLady]

When it comes to relationships, which of these are you?

• Champions: well-regarded figures who fight for a cause, representing a side either in a trial by combat or in a legal/moral debate, championing a cause either physically or verbally. In a relationship, the champion uses his/her words to defend and protect their spouse and their families. In terms of "Love Languages" these would be one who provides Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Intellectual/Emotional Gifts or Acts of Service. A champion doesn't necessarily have "a type" because he/she seeks to broaden their own horizon while broadening the horizon of their person of interest.
• Heroes: young warriors who get good things done with a sense of fearless bravery, often still "green" or untested in terms of their ability and experience, these young bloods are willing to meet any challenge head-on and with ferocity. In terms of "Love Languages" these would be the younger crowd dabbling in all five love languages till they find what works with their person of interest (so... each language in limited capacities, testing their own strengths/weaknesses) Words/Acts of Affirmation, Quality Time, Offering/Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch (empathetic, romantic and/or sexual). Heroes have some chaotic elements because of their relative lack of experience, but they tend to make up for it with the willingness to adapt/learn along the way.
• Warriors: seasoned heroes whose prowess withstood the test of time... They've overcome a variety of fears, hardships/defeat and conflict. They have resources and understand how the world works. They are fiercely protective of their own and experts at defending others. In "Love Languages," warriors' experience to hone in on their "type", to know what they value, want, need and can offer in a relationship; they are more sure-footed than the Hero, more guarded than the champion, with battle scars from previous relationships.

I'm a Champion

I'm a Hero

I'm a Warrior

Champion-Warrior Combo (Very rare... have mastered the art of communication to tackling a problem, choosing and measuring their battles carefully.)

Passive/Inactive (Not active participants in a relationship; those who sit back and let others make the major decisions on their behalf, receiving love (one way), selfish.)

[HawkPerception]

I've actually done an extremely in depth personality evaluation plugging a lot of information from different online personality tests and plugging it into ChatGPT to see what it thinks of me. So now I can literally feed it any information and it gives me a pretty accurate answer for myself. I know it kind of takes the real human feeling out of my answers, so I definitely won't be doing this for every answer, but I do agree with it and thought I'd share.

Here's what it said for question:

Based on your personality, the Champion archetype best suits you. Here's why:

Intellectual and Thoughtful Nature: Your deep love for philosophy, psychology, and the mysteries of the universe aligns with the Champion's role in fighting for a cause, whether in a trial by combat or a legal/moral debate. Champions use their intellect and words to champion a cause, reflecting your introspective and analytical mindset.

Warm and Approachable: Your warm, gentle, and kind personality fits the Champion's ability to defend and protect their loved ones through words and actions. Champions provide Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Intellectual/Emotional Gifts or Acts of Service, which align with your values of truth, honesty, kindness, and empathy.

Value-Driven: Champions are driven by a desire to broaden their own horizons while also expanding the horizons of those they care about. Your passion for boho lifestyle and philosophy, coupled with your goal to create meaningful content, shows a similar desire to inspire and uplift others.

Non-Conformity and Independence: Champions often resist societal norms and prefer to carve their own path, which matches your non-conformist approach to life and independent spirit. Your pursuit of personal projects like Boho Philosophy and Ayers Media reflects this archetype's qualities.

Supportive and Protective: In relationships, Champions use their words to defend and protect their spouse and family. Your commitment to making loved ones happy and proud, as well as your desire for meaningful connections, aligns with this protective and supportive nature.

Adventurous and Open-Minded: Champions seek to broaden their horizons and those of their partners. Your love for adventure, nature, and travel, combined with your intellectual curiosity, fits well with the Champion's open-minded and exploratory attitude.

Overall, the Champion archetype captures your intellectual depth, warm personality, value-driven approach, and desire to inspire and protect those you care about.

I would say that was pretty damn accurate for me 😂

[DishLady]

You fed it to the AI? 😂

[HawkPerception]

Yuppers... I'm actually proud of the amount of information I've plugged into ChatGPT and I'd say I'm also proud of the answers it gives 😂

[DishLady]

I’ll have to look at it… I heard they made updates.

[HawkPerception]

It's pretty powerful stuff. Still can't imitate human writing too well, but the output it gives is impressive. Gotta keep up with the times. Most people use it for their emails, resumes, sometimes blog posts, even book writing. Some people use it for content creation like scripts or even introspection like myself. You can ask ChatGPT to scour the web extensively and use the best found tactics online to do anything like assessing personality based on the information you feed it.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would say the warrior type as I've withstood the test of time. I've been through the ringer with the passing of my wife, but I keep remain strong for my daughter and have become more positive as the years go on. It's tough sometimes, but I am truly happy even though I miss her with all my heart.

[DishLady]

Aww. I’m so sorry you’ve had to live through that loss. I’m sure your daughter appreciates having a great dad, though.

[OfMiceandMen]

We get along great, I think it's made a stronger bond between us because we only had each other through the years.❤️

[DishLady]

I'm sure. Sending good vibes your way. The single parent thing is a tough journey a lot of us have to bear. The kids make the journey worth the efforts and sacrifices.

[OfMiceandMen]

They sure do, I am proud of my daughter, no doubt it was tough being brought up by her dad, but I did the best I could and either read-up about things or called my mom when it came time for certain things she would have conversed with her mother on.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

Where does this personality type come from? I've heard of a lot of categories and personality tests, but this one is new to me...

[DishLady]

Partially from Aristotle, partially from this pile of articles about ancient cultures that I've been geeking out on since January. I'm trying to trim the fat off the longer readings and consolidate the meanings a bit more so they "fit" into discussions for young people 21-35.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@DishLady Oh, wow... THAT'S really cool. That would be an awesome conversation!

I think it's hard for me to differentiate between the warrior and champion. They seem very similar. Does the warrior tend to evolve into the champion or vice versa? I know this is in the context of romantic relationships, but what is the cause for a champion? Just trying to clarify!

[DishLady]

You know how to write and verbalize your opinion (Champion) and you are direct in terms of your ability to fight (Warrior), so you're that combo option on the poll. (I was trying to put all the details in the description OR in the poll and G@G wouldn't allow it. ... Sigh.)

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@DishLady Cool! So I am a Warrior/Champion? All right! I'll take it. :D

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@DishLady What do you categorize as? I think we might be the same...

[DishLady]

Also Warrior-Champion bc I type too much. 😂

[OlderAndWiser]

I’m an attorney, so i am naturally a champion for some causes, but i am also a warrior.

[DishLady]

Combo for sure! Thanks, O&W!

[handsomelad70]

My cousin, Mychal Mulder once played for the Golden State Warriors.

[MisterWack]

I chose: “Champion-Warrior Combo (Very rare... have mastered the art of communication to tackling a problem, choosing and measuring their battles”, as the best description of myself.

I’m usually shy and timid though am finding my footing to resolve conflicts / arguments / heated discussion with calm, logical, rational, factual also truthful commentary to reach at least some sort of middle ground to deescalate things.

[MicahRaine]

I'd say that I'm a champion warrior combo since both describe me well. I've definitely been through some wringers and care for others (family/ close friends) before myself soo 🤷‍♂️

[DishLady]

Nice!

[KrakenAttackin]

I am a spent shell casing underneath a row of concertina wire.

[DishLady]

Aww. No, sir, I'd never think that. But I certainly should have had a "Kraken" category 😂. Sorry for the lapse there.

[KrakenAttackin]

@DishLady. Ha! Well, thank you.

[Heydrich]

Sounds like new classes in World of Warcraft. But, I prefer warrior on though.

[DishLady]

Lol. Yeah, it was a little D&D when I was looking at the original setup, but here we are...

Thanks. :)

[serious]

Given your vote options it seems you have asked this question only for people in relationships. In that case I cannot answer this question as I have always been single but in general I can.

[DishLady]

It’s meant to indicate how you would be in a relationship, without an implication of currently being in one…. Also, love language isn’t specific to romance and can apply to platonic relations as well….

[serious]

@DishLady

Well, hypothetically speaking to answer your question. My love language will be very pure and entirely non-sexual. It will be a soft and delicate form of love. Physical love and affection that is. As for other aspects, yes I will be protective towards the one I love but in my own ways.'

However, I will be more of the " Taker" as compared to the giver because what I can give is very less.

Given your vote my answer would be a combination of "Passive/Inactive" and a small aspect of the " Warrior".

However, only the "receiving love" part of passive/inactive is true. I will never sit back and let others decide on my behalf. I will always make my own decisions.

In terms of percentage, it will be like 70% Passive/Inactive and 30% Warrior.

I hope I explained myself well.

[Juxtapose]

Champ. They seem pretty chill and focus on the relationship without baggage or naivete.

[NathanDavis]

a gladiator...

[DishLady]

😮😮😮

[NathanDavis]

Gladiator II coming this year... are you ready for it?

[DishLady]

IS IT?

[RebelinSteel]

A warrior, I carry a few scars lol

[DishLady]

Many of us do.

[Dongie]

I have to say in all honesty I am all three. For one couldn't be without the others. At least not in my world.

[DishLady]

Hero is someone just starting out vs Warrior is the hero + experience….

[exitseven]

I am more of a warrior.

[spartan55]

Warrior 100% ⚔️

[DishLady]

I don't know, you’re a “go get it done” guy but also good with your words (when you’re not being cranky with a pink anon 😂)… Maybe more of a Warrior-Champion combo, no?

[Danny_dan92]

Just a warrior. I’m no champion or hero

[CubaPirate]

Just a participant

[handsomelad70]

A cowboy and golden boy !!!

[DishLady]

😂 😂 😂

[TonyMetal___86]

Tbh miss dish i'm all the three!

[DishLady]

The Hero and the Warrior are very different from each other, Tony. Look and you'll see the Hero has less experience than the Warrior, so you're either the new guy or the experienced guy...

[TonyMetal___86]

I was the 3 in my lifetime but now i think that i'm none

[Iron_Man]

All three 😊👍

[DishLady]

Hmm. Champion-Warrior can be paired, but Hero can't be combined. Can you check it out for an extra sec and lmk?

[Iron_Man]

I believe it can be all combined

[DishLady]

The Hero and the Warrior are very different from each other, iMan. Look and you'll see the Hero has less experience than the Warrior, so you're either the new guy or the experienced guy...

[Iron_Man]

I have no idea what you’re talking about. This must be a trick question.

[DishLady]

The description explains it. It's ok, I guess you didn't read it.

[Iron_Man]

I read the headlines