Would you pick a nerd or someone more socially acceptable?

[GeminiDiamond]

Last Friday Night, by Katie Perry. What type of person would you go for at first glance? Doesn't mean they don't have potential!

I'm going for the nerd

I'm going for the sure thing (gals)

I'm going for a sure thing (guys)

[CrazyGirl2]

I already chose the nerd! I’ve dated jocks and Chad’s since I was 14, I’m sick of their crap! Gimme a smart, funny guy who wants to start going to the gym just to spend more time with me, than a guy who spends more time at the gym than with me, and who takes forever in the shower because he's shaving his body (so he can look more manly 🙄 🤦‍♀️ ), and spends more time looking in the mirror at himself, than he does looking at me! And who on earth thinks nerds are not socially acceptable? A little socially awkward maybe, but I thought that was adorable! Besides, once he got a girlfriend and started going out to clubs, and dates etc… He got pretty socially confident pretty darn quickly!

No thanks, all hail the nerds! (You’ll probably be working for one someday)
Laura 🤗 🥰

[DishLady]

Seeing as I take an effort to look and be presentable while also (quite obviously) loving to geek out on certain topics, I’d expect a guy to do the same.

[HawkPerception]

I definitely wouldn't go for any of those depictions of the types of girls above. I consider myself pretty nerdy, but I don't think I look like the old depiction of a "nerd". And I would say I'm attracted to "smexy" girls (referring to a post that @DishLady made not too long ago):
What is sexy anyway? ↗

A girl that's physically attractive, but also intelligent. So basically a nerd that has social tact.

[Sharkstealth]

Since when are nerds not socially acceptable? Did you know that Elon Musk plays video games regularly? Did you know that the mother of 2 of his children is a Canadian Pop Star super nerd and also plays video games? Her name is Grimes. It teaches them to solve problems. That's a very math and science skill. It's not the 1980s anymore. Nobody cares about drug and alcohol addicts anymore.

[GeminiDiamond]

Right, and that girl that Elon hit on, and really liked is probably running into the wall after she turned him down. But he wasn't much of a "nerd" back then, compared to Bill Gates etc etc. And your a nerd.

[GeminiDiamond]

I want to say, I was/am still a nerd. I just make it look good.

[Sharkstealth]

I don't know what you look like?

[Sharkstealth]

Elon Musk is father to I'm pretty sure the number is 8 children. He is like a medieval king or prince. The dumb girls he attracts though are all celebrities but even a celebrities wealth in no way compares to his. In modern times he can't just kill them either.

[SotiCoto]

I think it may be necessary to draw a strict divide down the middle between the extranerds who are all "Being nerdy is totally acceptable and mainstream these days" ... and the intronerds who wish the extranerds would shut the fuck up and let us remain social outcasts in peace because it is better that way.

[Alli112]

I'm a nerd lol, as are most of my friends. It's probably be weirder if I didn't end up with someone a little nerdy. Not like we're still suffering under the impression as a society that nerdiness equates to unattractiveness.

[Adogdog]

Nerdy girls are cute :)

[GeminiDiamond]

Nerds are cute.. I know I am!

[Adogdog]

What about me then?

[GeminiDiamond]

Are you a nerd?

[Adogdog]

Somewhat

[GeminiDiamond]

Are you in transition? Love dogs by the way

[BetaBucks]

Nerdy girls are better for a lot of reason. She can learn to dress sexy at home for me in 30 seconds, without having to learn about "cool" fashion stuff. As far as the personality goes, I'm sure the nerdy girl will be easier going and more feminine anyway. Party girls are fun for practice though. Just not LTRs.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm a nerd and I don't really get what men see in that :D

[Unit1]

When people say "nerd" are they truly aware of what they're saying?

^ That's how an average Software Engineer/nerd making 50K/year looks like

[Iron_Man]

Aren’t nerd girls more kind of like shy girls that never hardly speak. I can’t imagine they’re that clumsy, and they talk that funny like in the movie revenge of the nerds.

[Nerdvana]

Nerd. I know this awkward. But I have real thing for slutty nerdy girls. lol I don't know why.

[NathanDavis]

nerds are not outcasts like that... lol

it's 2024... not the 80's anymore

[GeminiDiamond]

Peter Griffin eyeball corner of the eyes*

[NathanDavis]

[sirderpsalot123]

I like nerdy girls

[Yannae]

Nerd wins.