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Don’t choose the options according to the girls, just choose the outfits.

I started uni very recently and before it started, i had become friends with a guy who's going to the same department as mine on social media. We exchanged texts daily and the exchange was playful and fun. He even said we'd be inseparable close friends by graduation and i expected so too. but unfortunately, we didn't get into the same class, which virtually means we won't have contact with each other even on the same campus because classes are completely separate. Still, last week when uni started, we finally met for an info session at uni and went to lunch together before that. I enjoyed chatting with him because it was very easy to talk to him and i assumed he did too, but later that day when I texted him and suggested that we hang out again sometime soon after class, he texted me back and said not anytime soon bc he'll be busy with classes and other activities, strangely also adding that he would prefer to hang out in a group next time even if there's next time. i'm sure he's not in a relationship and i never suggested anything romantic and i genuinely just want to hang out with him again because it was fun chatting with him. since then, his replies got very slowly and much shorter. On top of that, i asked him this week if he'd like to go to an interesting uni event this week after class with me and when he finally replied he shortly just said he'd take a rain check (as his classes end before noon that day and the event is in the evening) and suggested i ask someone else particularly in my class out. I can't help feeling he's no longer interested in maitaining our still new friendship. and it's realistically very likely to just fizzle out as i don't see him at uni and texting is pretty much the only communication between us. Should i just let it naturally fade away without trying to keep the texting going and just forget about him or try to keep in touch with him by still sending him messages?

I really want to do both but I’ll have to pick one eventually. I’m not looking to do anything professional, just for fun. I’m going to start skate school soon and once I get used to the ice a bit more, maybe then I’ll be able to decide. Both seem very very fun though! But I am also wondering what I’d look like to others. Men usually play ice hockey and women usually do figure skating, not many do the other. How would a guy or a girl react to me playing hockey?

Should I stay in my expensive condo or move to a cheaper hotel, considering my uncertain future with my boyfriend and my desire to move Canada next year? “Please vote and leave comments below.”

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Before, I was homeless, unable to afford a place. Now, with a better income, I live in a condo. Despite the expense of 1500 rent. I'm content because it's close to work. However, my job is affecting my mental health, and the country's racism makes it hard to belong. My brain and body is already asking me to find a new job. In Malaysia I work, I felt lonely really lonely until I met Hamzah, with whom he become my boyfriend for over a year. But, he is returning to Iraq after his PhD on August this year. I felt afraid if ever he will come back as he is also clueless of his future.

I'm torn between staying in my current condo or moving to a cheaper hotel as my contract ends this May. Should I stay or move considering my uncertain future and desire to move to Canada?

If I stay in condo I can only save 2500 with strict discipline and in hotel I can save 2900. 400 difference per month.

As in approach first whether it’d be online or in person? I honestly was always under the impression that men were more likely to make the first move, I think that was true in the past but think the times are somewhat evolving. Guys are probably still more likely to do it but with Bumble along with the fact that I’m hearing women today talking more about sending a dm to their current boyfriend/fiancé/husband just backs it up. I’m reserved & old fashioned so I’m not with the majority of women

which one is your favorite?

Specifically when you've only been talking for a few weeks/months, and nothing specific happened.
The blocking is a result of your own lack of confidence, rather than any incident/misunderstanding taking place.

Let’s say she looks good to you and you start dating her, then eventually you will see her naked

and you see these small marks that are from surgery to make something smaller and other things bigger etc etc

would that turn you off?

Or are they only attrated to cute Asian women? I find the idea that one would find all women of a particular race attractive super weird but apparently some people are like that. Is that the case for the majority of men with preference for Asian women? I'm not talking about men who have dated women of different ethnicities.

Socially, tall males are more successful. They generally have higher status. If a male dates a short women who has short ancestors (yes, a woman may be tall but her relatives tall etc. I'm focusing on a short woman w short ancestors), then his male offspring will be short. Thereby, weakening his ancestral line. Should men then be more conscientious, as women already are, about choosing taller partners?

I’ve worked with a guy for two and a half years. We have a flirty relationship and we tease each other. Examples of him flirting include: prolonged eye contact, staring, gazing into both eyes and at my mouth, doing silly things to get my attention, showing slight jealousy.

We bumped into each other on a night out and a random person thought we were a couple. He said “I should be so lucky” and later on I admitted to him that I really like him and have feelings for him.

I asked him if he liked me/felt the same way and he said “you’re a lovely person”. I kept asking him, and he kept saying the same thing.

I then said “please answer the question” and he snapped at me saying “yes I do but we can’t be together”

We both drank a bit but he didn’t seem overly drunk at all.

Do you think there was any truth in what he said and do you think he meant it?