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which would you still wear?

I absolutely love the freedom of living on my own. I come and go as I please, it prepares you for the future , and an escape from drama.

So, im 30f, I've lost a lot of weight and im recently single. My biggest fear in starting a relationship is my boobs, its my biggest insecurity.. they used to be big like really big, but now that i lost a lot of weight (70kg) they are still big but they sag down my belly. I hate looking myself naked in the mirror because i look like shit with them.. im against getting butchered and getting surgery, but im looking for other options thats non invasive. Ladies if you have any suggestions for let me know.

A child ages 12 and above is already judged and sentenced as an adult when he/she commits serious crimes. Long ago, they had a case of a 12 year-old boy that was given a life sentence without parole but it got changed somehow. Now it's life sentence with parole and maybe released after 25 years if they are proven to be rehabilitated. At least that's how it works here in the US. It gives severe prison time even for minors as young as 12.

Junior and High school bullies are vicious. If they are already treated as adults for serious crimes, should it be the same for bullying, for them to get judged as adults for that too, esp if it led to the victim committing suicide?

12-14 year-olds aren't little kids anymore. They know exactly what they're doing by then.

I read about the “are we dating the same guy” in an article about the groups being a potential lawsuit waiting to happen. I joined the ones in my city cause I was curious but after reading through a lot of posts, I genuinely shocked at how unhinged the posts are. With one post calling for the police to be contacted because a guy was really rude to her in messages ( he called her fat). The odd post was helpful, one was about a guy who had a string of criminal convictions for domestic violence but the majority are cray cray esp the ones in my city.

So have you joined them, have they helped you? Are you a man, Have you ever been a victim of one of these groups? I’m genuinely curious cause I can see these groups ruining someone’s life.

I asked him if I made him uncomfortable and if he wanted to stop teaching me guitar that’s absolutely fine but he just said “no, it’s all fine, don’t worry dude” even though I think there’s several signs that show he’s probably not comfortable or he can tell that I’m really attracted to him. Why would a guy just brush things off and not address them? He also said the other day that he got divorced and also said that he “doesn’t teach people that he doesn’t have time for — money isn’t the main thing anymore, some people are just too emotionally draining” why would he say this to me? I don’t know whether there’s mutual attraction or whether I just make him uncomfortable? But I’ve cancelled my next lesson with him because I need to sort my head out.
it’s just odd how he’s friendly and open… but things can be so awkward and weird at the same time.

which would you go for

I've seen a few of these floating around, but this is the first 4-digit I've come across.

Have fun... it'll be super easy to cheat, but I know you won't. Extra credit for showing your work / explaining your process. For reference, I timed myself and it took me just under 7min.

Some people say it's bad to move in together before marriage and some say it's good to move in together first to get to know them better and to see if it will make or break your relationship.

I think it's good to move in together before marriage to see if it will make or break your relationship. I'm just not sure when is the right time to move in together.

As we all know when you have a problem in society the best thing to do is release a monster. The UK is trying to clamp down on hate groups and so Scotland has released the "Hate monster" to stop everyone from stabbing each other with broken Irn-Bru bottles.

But do you like the Hate Monster and do you think he could work in America where Oscar the Grouch has failed?

https://youtu.be/SPeUtdT9oUM?si=_Zj_GGohgsrYiNLm

Recently I caught my boyfriend calling and texting a woman of his caste and I'm not of his caste. He told me he was frustrated with me that's why he went behind my back despite us patching up post 24 hrs breakup always. Now I asked the girl if they slept and she said that she met him on bumble and she said that he was asking for casual sex and nothing serious to which she said no. He said me that he was sorry to get distracted and that it naturally happened. He bdw blocks me badly whenever we fight instead of resolving. I love him but he was never romantic and never did anything special for me. Many times I felt he took me for granted but since we are together since 2 years in this relationship I have lots of feelings for him and he apologised to me that he is devoted to me and will never get distracted. Whenever I miss him and I cry to him, he never cries or gets emotional to have missed me if we haven't met him for many days. But he said me that whenever he was distracted after he broke up with me for like 24 hours, he said me that he tried to find me in another woman always and then he missed me and always came back to me. I have never ever broken up with him ever. ( We always patched up after 24 hrs by resolving post him breaking up with me many times) I don't really know if he is completely loyal to me because of this. I trust his words that he is loyal to me but him telling me that I should love him more when he gets distracted make me wonder if he really loves me or not.

Is it ok for me ( born and bought up in Mumbai - school college and job in Mumbai too) to marry someone who is not from Mumbai ( he is from Odisha) and he wants to settle in Odisha in the long term future. So I will have to sacrifice my everything in Mumbai - job, maternal family in Mumbai, kids and settle with my husband in Odisha. So is it wise as a girl to sacrifice so much for a man she loves? He said me that he can't sacrifice his hometown and parents of 30 years, against our serious relationship of 2 years and won't settle in Mumbai. (Despite his job in Mumbai as he wants his options open to be able to settle in Odisha. ) My parents are attached to me so they will not like me settling in Odisha and I from within my heart hoped for him to settle in Mumbai coz his and my job is in Mumbai. What to do? Is it true that if a guy really loves me, will be sacrifice his everything and settle with me in Mumbai? His parents and mine parents don't like this intercaste..