Is it ok for me ( born and bought up in Mumbai - school college and job in Mumbai too) to marry someone who is not from Mumbai ( he is from Odisha) and he wants to settle in Odisha in the long term future. So I will have to sacrifice my everything in Mumbai - job, maternal family in Mumbai, kids and settle with my husband in Odisha. So is it wise as a girl to sacrifice so much for a man she loves? He said me that he can't sacrifice his hometown and parents of 30 years, against our serious relationship of 2 years and won't settle in Mumbai. (Despite his job in Mumbai as he wants his options open to be able to settle in Odisha. ) My parents are attached to me so they will not like me settling in Odisha and I from within my heart hoped for him to settle in Mumbai coz his and my job is in Mumbai. What to do? Is it true that if a guy really loves me, will be sacrifice his everything and settle with me in Mumbai? His parents and mine parents don't like this intercaste..
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We are not married yet. We are in a 2 years relationship
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My best advise will be to go for mutual divorce now
Coz everyone knows after you shift to odisha you Wil face problems then it will get bigger then you will eventually file a divorce which will lag out for years before the divorce and by the time you will be free you would have lost a good 10, 20 yeas of your life
Honest advice go for mutual divorce now save the suffering
stay near family
stay with ur family n go for divorce