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We fixed this by both having our own blankets and he keeps the sheets.

let's see how tall you people are

i'm 5'8/172cm

Let's call my friend S and my crush M. Basically, I got S to ask M is he was single, M said yes, and S gave M my number and a made-up name. I texted M to tell him that the name wasn't actually real, and we chatted about an assignment. When I refused to tell him my name, he ghosted me. I thought this had blown over already (it's been a week), but apparently M and his friends have been shooting S death glares in the hallway so clearly it hasn't. I don't want M to know that it's me because I'm super ditzy and unhinged around him (he turns my brain to mush), but I simultaneously want to tell him to fix the mess that I have created (and due to the hidden hope that he'll give me a chance). So should I tell him that it's me? If you were M, what would you want me to do? What's the worst thing that can happen, and is it worth the risk?

As of recently, my popularity has dwindled on the dating apps & I’m unsure of the exact cause. Is it my age? As I look the same & I haven’t moved yet things went downhill a few months ago. I mainly use hinge & noticed this drought on all the other apps too, which makes me even more worried considering it seems to be across all platforms. Because of this, I’ve also been second guessing my decision to brush off the guys that previously showed interest in me. At the time I was somewhat interested in a few but either I wasn’t in the mood/doubtful because of negative dating app experiences I dealt with at that time/was too anxious. I question if I genuinely feel regret because this is a delayed reaction or if I’m reminiscing/liking the idea of them since things aren’t going my way at the moment. How can someone be told they’re “attractive” yet quality guys NEVER show them interest in person? If I got attention from these guys from the apps in person, maybe I wouldn’t be as anxious.

29F & I’ve always had this type of deep rooted anxiety when it comes to relationships, I’ve always been a loner & not the friendliest I suppose, to the point where I’m currently content with online/gamer “friends”. There’s this part of me though, that struggles with knowing I’ll never find romantic love. I’m very sure I’m only romantically attracted to men but in a way, I question at times if I really want to be with one long term. Let’s start with: I’m not very affectionate, I don’t trust easily, I get turned off quickly by “innocent” cocky or conceited banter, I’m very antsy about intimacy & not crazy about sex/masturbation to begin with. These might all seem like cop outs because I truly feel the right person will change how I feel about all these “issues”. As a woman I don’t think it’s that rare to not really have much of a sex drive, I keep hearing stories about other women in the same boat that meet their husbands & realize they weren’t “asexual” after all.

And I’m not talking about revealing clothes or dresses, just normal flattering items such as a nice blouse etc.

Im normal weight (size 6) and this dude I slept with and wanted to see me desperately the next day said he couldn’t go on pursuing me because I’m too big for him and he needed someone skinnier so he would look dominant since he himself is quite slim (but at 6 foot 4 also quite tall). I was really upset about this and when I looked through his Instagram followings I noticed he followed many really young looking women with pubescent bodies (many borderline anorexic) that don’t follow him back. His best friend disclosed that while he is a friendly guy he tends to be manipulative and exhibits stalker tendencies with women. He still watches all my insta stories and keeps glancing and staring at me when he sees me in public despite rejecting me. The dude is 26 and refers to women as girls. Is that normal? Am I overreacting?

They are typically the ones that grow up to be successful (even get married and have kids), moved on as if nothing ever happened and never once reached out to their former victims of their bullies. In fact, in you even confront them about it years later, they suddenly don't remember anything. They would even greet you as if you were some friend or acquaintance they had a good time with or greet you as if meeting you for the first time, lol.

Seriously are they actually narcissists? What do you think?

Hi 👋 There’s this guy who works in the building where I live. I asked him to help me move some furnitures in my flat he immediately accepted to come the next day to help during his cigarette break ( so escaping from work basically)

he came at 6pm and helped so much like I was scared he break his back lol he was friendly and smiley. The furniture would not go through the hallway and so he said he will come later he left in a hurry and I could tell he probably left work without telling his team.

He did come back later and came around midnight between two paying customers at his job ( restaurant) .

I was in my room and heard him moving it in the hallway I came out and said ‘ oh my god let me help you you should of knock at my door ‘ he then said he was happy to help smiled was friendly and polite and rushed back to his job.

I did not had time to invite him for lunch now which was my move to know if he had a girlfriend or not because if he said yes it meant he had no girlfriend.

Now I am back to square 1 . He did not try to make conversation or to make the thing goes longer etc.

Maybe he is just friendly and in fact has a girlfriend?

I am really upset I did not asked him but my mouth was full of smelly garlic pizza and he probably heard me being gross in my room ( laughing loud on the office US 🇺🇸) lol Thanks

Usually a women who is the worst to all but her select few who she kinda likes while stabbing every one else in the back. Bringing down her entire department but being nice and fun

to the men above her.

My sister and me both have the worst bosses when they should be leaders and let us work not micro manage in the worst ways.