Polls

Or do men not think much of it if someone fancies them?

During some conversations he starts fidgeting or rubbing his arms nervously… but only sometimes. And a few months ago he saw me in person and got very nervous and started shaking. Other than that… the only other sign of attraction I’ve noticed is that he mirrors me quite a bit… picking up his coffee cup to take a sip when I do it…. Not sure if he’s naturally an awkward man or whether he’s attracted? But in groups of people he doesn’t seem awkward and looks more relaxed… so maybe I have an effect on him? But he also hasn’t made a move on me. Maybe he feels awkward because someone told him I like him? I dunno. Also another thing to note is that I’m more conventionally attractive than he is, so maybe he’s intimidated? I’m not sure. Also his face looks a bit red around me sometimes but I can’t tell whether he’s flushed for another reason or it’s just lighting etc.

Does intelligence really matter to a guy when it comes to dating? If a women is smarter than you, is it off putting? From the people I meet, I realised that smart women are more likely to be single than other women. Is it because they are more selective or is it because men don't want them as much? I feel that successful men are more likely to go for housewives rather than high achieving women.

And claims to be a certain cute girl from college you have seen in quite a few lectures asking you if you're about to graduate soon? How would you react and why? (If it matters, she got your number through a common whatsapp group of a big course at college you both attended).

For instance with status symbols, charm, intellect, confidence etc.

His friend told me that he was really into me for years. He would sneak glances when I was distracted but never found the courage to come up and talk to me. Months later he met a girl in a lecture in college (which I also attended) that started flirting with him and he confidently flirted back. From then on he started dressing nicer to this lecture. Why didn’t he ever put in the effort for me if he had a crush on me for years?

As adults we try to protect kids innocents but as teens we want to lose it.

Ever felt there was a moment when it was suddenly gone? Was it during dating or at another time

Innocents is not just virginity!

I think that my last name is super cool. So i personally don't want to change it. But i see plenty of dude who have problem with it why? Lmao I might understand if I wanted kids to have my last name but i don't care about that. I just want to keep it because it sound cool. Why is it a problem?

I've only had 2 dates with this man in real life whom I met on a dating app. After that, I went back to my country. We've been talking to each other online for around 6 months, and it's been 4 months after our dates. And finally I'm planning to come back next month, which means he would have waited for me for 5 months without dating anyone else.

Today he got drunk and called me, and said he miss me. He said he's been waiting for me because he thinks I might be 'the one'. I think this man is more faithful than many other guys.

So I'm curious, as a guy, would you do the same? Like not dating other girls for 5 months and waiting for a girl you've only had 2 dates to come back to your country?

Men, Do you prefer straight or curly hair and why?

(Girls can vote too)!