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My boyfriend works in merchandising retail and makes his own schedule. He tries to schedule his work when I am working but whenever he has to work when I am off he tells me I "have" to go to his work with him. I do not necessarily mind going because it is time with him but sometimes I am too tired and he says his reason is just wanting me there with him because it makes his work more pleasant and although he has said before that I do not "have" to go but then other times actually used the phrase "you have to" and just makes it feel like it is not really my choice but something that he is really pretty much set on. This is making me feel like he is untrustworthy and afraid of someone coming by our house to tell me something or me finding something while he is away or either that he does not trust me at all.

What do you want after the wedding?

I’m purple & he’s grey, for context he wanted my # because I said I don’t use the app often. I said I didn’t feel comfortable, asked if he had social media & he said no, which is why we agreed to speak on app for now.

I do light makeup or non.:)

If you read the scientitific & psychological research on incel - and there's a lot, I don't have the GAG rating to post links otherwise I would - the majority who fall into this category have social disorders.

In this research the general concesus is the majority of "incel" males has antisocial personality disorders or in short they don't fit into society in general. If anyone visits incel heavy forums & sites you'll find this is quite obvious in their embittered blame-everyone-but-me-for-problems-I-face posts and even admitting of having few to no real life friends.

Now given that - a mannerism that is unappealing

Who is responsible for a man becoming an "incel".

What do you like more when women are dressed? Sweater or hoodie?

Recently i've been drinking more bubbly water but I'd say still water wins in the end.

Did you go through a break-up or are you still together? And is the break-up worse the more time you spent together?

i ate flowers growing up and guess what

I STILL DO
you can't stop me

Have you ever been in this situation, where your friend you've known for years all of a sudden gets into a relationship and forgets about you?

If so, what did you do? How did you handle the situation? What is your relationship with them like now? Would you ever accept them back into your life?

(I'm currently going through this with a girl I was friends with for 6 years to a guy she's known for a year and now engaged to. I once told her that I deserve better and if things don't change, then I'm dumping her as a friend. She even once said to my mother, "I can only focus on one thing at once. I only have time for work and my partner". Do you think I'm attending her wedding next month? Heck no! I declined and blocked her).

I'm a 23F, about to be 24, still in college. Though I've been asked out before, not by the right guys, I'd never had a first date. I never had a boyfriend. I have a specific type/look in men that I'm attracted to. But the guys I would seem interested in are either not interested in me or they are not aware of my interest in them. I'm quite quirky in appearance, personality. But I'm very smart, curious, open minded and observant (If you're curious as to why I look like, you can go to this link If I'm pretty like people tell me, how come guys don't ask me out?

I'm also usually forward when speaking with others. After a guy who I fell for didn't return his feelings, I shut out and stopped approaching guys and showing interest, in fear of rejection and just encountering the obvious. It took me months to get over him.

A lot of people in my age bracket are already in relationships, engaged or married. And it seems like they're all pretty much the same in personality, style, common interests and friends. I feel like the odd one out without any experience or proposals. I was raised in the Midwest, but I currently live in the deep south. So that might explain a lot. This not only feels odd to me, but like it's too soon for everyone to be married this young. I want to be in a relationship, but I feel like I'm too weird or quirky for men to handle or to be attracted to. Like I just turn them off right from the start of the conversation or minutes into. So I just keep quiet and too myself, unless someone interesting enough catches my eye. I don't like to waste my time with people who aren't gonna make time for me, benefit me or who I see as fake and toxic. Pretty valid, is it not? I know what I want and what I'm looking for, but I'm open for something different to me.

Could anyone give me any ideas as to why? And if you are or have been through what I'm going through, please give your story. Thank you!

They're both potatoes, but which are you more likely to reach for?

I had an acquaintance who I know finds me physically attractive. He would subtly stare and look my way when I’m around - this has been going on for half a year now. Good news is that we got recently acquainted and I believe he might be pass the attraction stage to crush phase?

we had a nice 1:1 catch-up where he displayed all the signs of attraction (very animated (way more than his usual self), quite the gentleman) and then he couldn’t stop smiling when he saw me around. Trying to spend more time w me / asking if I was going to joint Events

And then the weekend passed and when I was around him this week, he seemed on-edge, purposely passing by my side but walking really fast like swooshing pass me. His natural demeanour is cool call and collected so I obviously noticed

is this a sign he is not comfortable around me (for whatever reasons) or that he just does not know what to do with his feelings for me?

and if it’s because he doesn’t know what to do with feelings, what can I do to make it easier for both of us? I notice guys do get very uncomfortable around me and even though I am very certain they are at least physically attracted to me, it still makes me feel like an awkward person if someone is avoiding me.

To honour you as a guest in my home I've slaved away all day over a hot stove to bake two great pies. Limpet pie and cockle pie. I'll be really upset if you refuse to eat one and it may cause an international incident.

So based on the two recipes in the photos (screenshots from a local recipe site) which one are you going to tuck into?

Me and other fellas from the local Muay Thai (and boxing) gym/club are having a Christmas party on 27th. I have some idea of the outfit and the hairstyle but I am unsure whether I should really spice up the nails?

I have somewhat medium length, decent natural nails (I am not a fan of the fake acrylic ones) and rarely paint them.

I don't want to look too out of place. I want to look nice yeah but I don't want to look like a pin up doll around people who are dressed casually or slightly more formal (shirts, pants etc.).

Please vote and/or comment what else do you recommend?

I think I'm going to wear my best fitted light blue jeans with a grey henley (it really suits me), maybe add a smudge of raspberry lipstick shade, medium hoop earrings and decent eye makeup and that's it. I want bouncy girls for the night.