The guy I am seeing is asking me to be prepared for the breakup should I continue to see him?

[Anonymous]

So recently I met with this guy and we went on few dates and after few dates he told me not to get attached with him coz he is going to leave this relationship and asking me to be happy in the moment should I still continue to date this guy. He is nice and all good and has never mistreated me but at the end he is going to hurt me and his reason is like if you are prepared to get hurt then you won't feel it much. I am confused at the moment what to do? Should I continue to see him or just break the arrangement?

Should I continue this

Or break this arrangement

Or be prepared to get hurt

[Still-alive]

What a fucked up thing to say to a date lol. he doesn't sound like a nice guy at all.

break up with him first and leave him in the dust. Sounds like mind games to me. like he's trying to make himself seem like he could have any girl he wants to make you want him more. something like that...

[Surely]

He already told you he was going to break up with you. So unless you have nothing better for friendship. Move on!

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO. Good luck and have a great New Year!

[MissStrawberry912]

When they say they will hurt you, best believe he will and isn’t the person for you. Take initiative to respect yourself and say bye to this type of situation.

[Jmmmfi4]

THATS PRETTY DAMN WEIRD

[rosemilk]

break up with him first. power move

[Anonymous]

Has your relationship become sexual yet?

[Asker]

We did make out but didn't have sex

[Opinion Owner]

If he is telling you to be prepared, it sounds like he has already made that decision and it is just a matter of time before he announces it.