Polls

Like what do you carry in your purse?

Are you like me and want to make sure you have everything you need even though you might rarely, if ever, use it all?

We’ve been together for eight years and there is still a lot of chemistry and things to talk about. With that being, his parents are snobs so he has basically told me he is willing to do a private marriage but a normal marriage isn’t possible. I could never be a part of his family. He also hates my family because he feels like they take advantage of me etc so other issues too. Ultimately, we realized we have to part ways but for some reason he still gets jealous if I talk to anyone else and even when we try to stop messaging or seeing each other we only last a few days, most a week, before we somehow get sucked back in. No matter how hard I try to cut out, I get sucked back in when he messages and vice versa. He claims he doesn’t love me etc and just wants to “use” me but then anytime I am hurting or family stuff comes up he gets involved immediatly and he gets upset if I prioritize family over time with him. Is this considered a form of addiction and anyone else experience it before?

When will you sexist bitter guys give this BS up? You see women over 30 date and get into relationships all the time. No one cares if you think those men are high value or not. Plus men literally sleep with anyone no matter how they look why tf would age change that? 🤣 These men know they can’t compete with the women they say “hit the wall” but still talk shit about them. It’s CRINGE and DELUSIONAL. I can’t WAIT to “hit the wall” so that bitter toxic men don’t approach me. Guys who only value women for their looks and fertility will leave me alone once I hit 30? Sounds great! 🤣🤣

I watched a video last night where this guy was saying that guys know what they want from a woman within the first 15 minutes of meeting them.
I don't remember the guy's name, so I can't find the video, but it was in response to a clip of a podcast where these girls were saying they think guys don't know whether or not they want a serious relationship with you until after about a month or two.

Guys, are either of these true for you? Does it just depend?

You wake up next to your partner and they ask you, "Good morning babe, you want something sweet or savory?"

What do you usually go for?

Honestly, I like them both but as I got older, I don't really care for anything sweet in the morning.

Even if she was rather reclusive and not flirty

In the US the cost of living varies from $2500 to $3500 a month.

He can be really hurtful with his words when he is mad and sometimes I just don't have the energy to "argue" with him and I feel really small and like he is manhandling me. In the end he usually apologizes but it's been years and sometimes he still surprises me with the way he acts even tho it's happening less times... I just want to do the right thing for myself because he is really good when things are ok but I don't want to be old and have a family and have someone talk like that when something less nice comes up, or in front of my kids... But maybe it's just normal for some people to express themselves like that.. I don't know