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He is returning from a long business

It's her birthday and you expect her to make you lucky. You buy her an expensive gift as well.

So I'm 1m57 that roughly translates to 5'2

I was 42 kgs before and now I am 46 kg

I know I'm not fat now but I sometimes miss my skinny days because I could wear certain clothes from a shop for skinny girls.

But I do love the thicker thighs I have now from working out.

basically the question is:

small waist or thick thighs? 😅

We look like biological women so using the men restroom would be weird and probably some creepy man would want to assault us. Plus, we would look out of place in the men's restroom

Plus, checking everyone's genitals is against the law, personal privacy and just plain creepy.

So yesterday he was telling me that he had to work late. Doesn't make any sense because he had no reason to work late to my knowledge and I know his schedule pretty well. There's only certain times that he has to work late and from what he communicated yesterday it sounded like a usual work day.

Come the morning he's very standoffish response more as if we are friends rather than people that were dating each other or thinking of dating each other seriously and his communication is s***** in comparison to usual. Like it's not as engaging or anything.

Like by all assumptions you could say that he's been cheating. But as he's such a poor communicator - like it's not often he initiates text - it's hard to say and I really don't know if I should reach out or just sit and see what he does

I find men with nice smooth shaved legs more sexy and attractive. More men should keep their legs shaved smooth.

I'd like to see your opinions..

I find Black, mixed and Latino guys cute but I'm wondering if White guys would wanna marry a White girl that dated others race of men. I've read some men saying women are spoilt for doing it and some refuse to date them after.

I don't want to get a bad rep for it either.

I went to a social gathering to network with other folks who travel solo or in group, basically to learn from each others experiences. This guy came up to me and started talking. Over the next 30 mins, he just went on and on about his job, his apartment that he owns and the three side businesses he runs. He also tried inquiring if I was interested in having kids later in my life. Basically, he was selling himself and trying to gauge if I fit in his "requirements". He happened to ask for my phone number and I gave it. I know that I have to learn to say no and I have decided what to do next time some guy asks and I'm not willing to give. Out of being polite, I just continued the conversation and at one point, I moved into a group of guys and girls to avoid talking to him one-on-one. I did notice that he was also exchanging numbers with another girl in the group. Seems like a player.

Anyways, so he texted me the time I shared my number and I didn't read those messages indicating to him that I'm not interested. He texted me again a few hours ago asking how my week is going and if I'm free for coffee on Sunday morning. I haven't opened the message to read it as it flashed on my phone screen and I was able to read it there. So, now he thinks that I haven't read his message.

I do not want to talk or meet him. Should I just ghost him? I know its not mature thing to do but I'm done being nice already.

Honestly in my opinion? While it's none of my business what other people wear, and I realize people don't dress to please me; personally I absolutely hate the way below the knee shorts look on men. Like in photo above of the same guy in the above the knee shorts versus the "too long" shorts... night and day to me. To me it's just crazy how much better men's shorts look when they don't cover the kneecaps.

I personally also like very short shorts on guys, like around 5 inch inseam, mid-thigh... though I realize that length might be "a bit too bold" for most people, especially since below the knee shorts have been so ingrained for a long time... but slightly above the knee is an excellent starting point in my opinion.

Now for some photo examples of men in above the knee shorts that I think looks good. ;3

Ahaha... would you look at all that beautiful man thigh. But on a more serious note, I tried to include a variety of different "above the knee" lengths. From only a few inches above to significantly more inches above.

I would find some below the knee shorts photo examples for comparison, but... I just hate looking at below the knee shorts, lol.

For all the guys in those photos, they're seriously rocking those shorts, and it would break my heart if they "reverted" back to below the knee shorts, haha... no, not really, but I'd still be disappointed, lol.

That being said... if you're a man who likes below the knee shorts, or a woman who likes to see men in below the knee shorts... respect. This is just my silly, and perhaps a bit too "obsessive" opinion, haha.

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