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We were supposed to go over some plans for a long weekend getaway. Suggested a time. He agreed to that time. I'm waiting for his text for an hour after the assigned time and it's like yeah.

This isn't the first time he's failed to deliver. Meeting up for coffee has been postponed. And a few other things.

We're relatively new to each other - haven't yet been sexual - and I'm already like this guy can talk the talk but he certainly can't walk the walk.

I honestly feel he's taking advantage of my good nature.

He said “I can’t believe you’re still talking to me” I said how come?
He said “I’m not usually good at this part, never managed to before”

Was he still caught up on the last girl?

It's time to put away childish things and face reality. Cereal is designed for little kids, it has no place in front of an adult at breakfast time. 90% of the packaging is designed to attract ankle buyers not adults.

But what of plain cornflakes? Well did you know that the Kellogg's is a based on the welsh word for cock, "ceiliog" that's right your munching cock flakes, go on google it.

Sure some cereal is advertised as being good for your heart but what 5 year old gives a shit about heart attacks? If you must have a milky breakfast then at least have a grown up one like porridge.

Agree? Of course you do

Title says it all.

I love men in leather jackets / coats. So sexy and manly at the same time.

So basically a guy at my job lowkey said; that I have pancakes 🥞. And I don’t even know what that means 🥺. I’m so hurt by this because I know it’s something mean.

He’s been picking on me since I got there. But what does this mean? Which part is considered pancakes? 🥞 I look pretty normal, average. I don’t have anything too Flat or Weird. So what does pancakes mean? Is it something sexual?

Does it have to do with my face?
With my hair? With my belly?
I am so confused!

#pancakes #insults #urbandictionary #bullying #bully

I feel like most in west are modern but at the same time it might just be they get more attention?🫢

for some context:

This has been an issue since before the wildfires. The tourism industry does not directly help anybody of Native Hawaiian descent.
Some points to be made are that
1) some tourists disrespect the environment.

the increase in tourism has resulted in problems such as overcrowding, littering, an overextension of our rescue and emergency resources & damage to the fragile ecosystem. some native Hawaiians may feel that tourists do not show enough respect for the environment.

2) disrespect for the locals.

many visitors act rudely and entitled on their “expensive vacation” towards locals which can be seen as blatant disrespect to the culture and the residents. they step on sacred burial grounds to get a better view of a sunset & steal the lava rocks when they leave. they take the wrong way on illegal hikes - putting local first responders in danger & wasting already strained resources by needing to get rescued. they spray non-reef safe aerosol sunscreen all over the beach.
*granted- this is not every tourist but its enough to the point where they no longer want visitors.

3) economic disparities

some native hawaiians believe that the tourism industry has benefited more than the locals themselves. more and more natives are getting priced out of their homes from foreign or out of state investors and corporations. i think it is a common misconception that tourists believe they are helping the economy by spending lots of money but in reality the profits go to those corporations and not the natives.

and i just want to conclude this by saying while tourism in itself is a prevalent industry all over the world, it’s important to recognize the impact it causes on certain communities. There are other options out there!!!

i cry VERY easily

i say a resounding yay, i love shag carpeting

28F, depending on the activity where I’m not getting a lot of replies or matches I like then I reply to messages 2-3x per week. I feel like on fb dating there’s more activity for now but on hinge the matches were better quality maybe I’m wrong but they do all suck. Since the apps are shitty I try to use them casually