Would you also be put off by this sexual comment?

[Anonymous]

Just for backstory, me & this guy have been talking on dating app maybe a week. He’s so far respected the fact that I don’t want to share my number till I get to know him better, hence we’re supposed to videochat today but I don't know anymore. He seems nerdy, family oriented, implied he’d prefer something serious & is very responsive which are all pluses but he’s flirty & good looking which makes me suspicious. He’s also implied he hasn’t had much luck with the apps but this clearly isn’t his first rodeo & I haven’t answered back yet b/c it was unexpected & uncomfortable. This is a little snippet of our convo last night up to where he last msged, I’m the blue & he’s grey

https://imgur.com/a/Owvf0EK

Yes

No

[spartan55]

Seriously, you think that was a sexual comment? Maybe a little, but geez you want to pull the plug just because of that? If you wouldn't have brought attention to it then I doubt it would have turned into phone sex. He said he didn't mean anything by it, just relax.
So because he's 'flirty and good looking' that somehow is a negative? I'm not sure if you are ready to date tbh.

[Alex-Snow]

There may be more than meets the eye wit him but I'd videochat and maybe meet IRL and see where it goes. How old is this guy?

[LazerBean]

He sounds full of himself. He's definitely off putting in my book.

[shortster]

I would be more concerned about how conceited he is about his appearance.