Polls

On another post someone said that in divorce things should be split 50/50 of any and all assets gained throughout the marriage regardless on if one partner contributed the bulk of those assets or not.

As example one spouse stayed at home & the other worked, stay at home would be entitled to 50% of assests (property, furniture, etc.) bought in the marriage even if didn't pay a dime.

And that got me thinking.

I own a property outright (bought easily as I came from Europe & CAD is far less), I have a good job, I am currently running one e commerce business & thinking of another next year. And looking into some property investment deals with a long time friend of mine.

Yeah I'm really a woman brought up in a upper middle class, highly business focused family. So business, investment, etc. is generational, going back to great-grandpa.

Anyway

I'd be mighty pissed off if someone thought that simply by marriage they'd be entitled to anything that MY hard work contributed to the household merely because we're married.

The wound is not big but its thick cut and yesterday a lot of blood came out some today its still open despite bandage i tried but doesn't work

I'm back with the cargos.
I have already ordered a grey pair of cargos.
Now I'm thinking of also buying this style. I do find all of the colors pretty but:

black is overpowering my closet BUT it really is the best and safest choice (stain and style wise)
khaki green looks nice but it never has never really been my color
beige/yellow is pretty but I dunno how I'd style it with the rest of my clothes
white is absolutely gorgeous but honestly, who can afford to wear white? especially frikkin cargos...

Please vote. Thank you!

You won't need to work ever again and you can buy anything you want and live very luxurious life.

If for example the rest of her looks nice it’s just her hair a bit dry. Would it make you think differently of her?

If no then share what made you believe this or come to realise of this (when/how). But if yes, then be open & support your response with your experience😊

Feel free to offer some other ideas and post pictures.

I am meeting a 40 year old man.

The place will look somewhat like this

I want to look sexy but also classy.

I always here feminists wanting women to take place in the army but who actually wanna join the army lol? I don't😂.. you wanna wake up 5 am and work out 5:30? (This is just an example below)

Daily schedule for female army:

So most people agree that a "red flag" is not negotiable. What if you can fix it?

Example: He/She is horrible with finances or money. That might be a red flag for some. Others might think I can work with that and help them.

Your thoughts...

I don't see why such men are called red flags or abusive simply from this one thing they do. Maybe it's because I grew up in a kinda-conservative family I don't know but I think it's actually pretty sweet.

This guy from theater I’m becoming theater friends with, we have the same sense of humor and in almost every conversation, we laugh hysterically. We also pick on each other by teasing each other with objects and stealing things. I don’t know if he was joking but he pinky promised me that he didn’t drink and then I said “are you going the same way as me” and he said “I am but I’m not following you. I don’t like you that much. We’ll see how it goes maybe someday”. Does he actually not like me that much and thought I liked him or was it just all a joke. What does that joke mean? I’m really bad at reading signals. I also said I don’t have a ride and he said “I can give you a ride. Or anyone else can” so he doesn’t care THAT much? I’m really confused. What if he is just friendly and like that with everyone?

My husband and I have been married only two years, we have arguments constantly because we are both alphas and he always thinks it’s his way that matters only. He also is a hypocrite, he can do things but if I was too all hell would break loose. Lately I’ve been catching myself looking at other men or thinking what life would be like with them or what it would be like to have sex with them. My husband and I rarely have sex because he’s always too busy or tired and quite frankly when we do I can’t wait until it’s over. It’s just so blah. This have never been an issue before but it’s making me second guess everything, I feel completely wrong for having these thoughts but there’s a devil on my shoulder telling me to act on it. Advice?