He cheated when we had 3 kids together?

[Anonymous]

We had what I thought was a good sex life etc

We always did new things, loads of oral. He claimed I did some crazy things on top just before he cheated. Said he loved eating me out could do it for hours. Loved how I looked giving him head etc.

Do you think he’s now with her thinking all that’s better with her

Because he cheated and never came back. Or was it purely to avoid the kids. He always complained about having to deal with the kids and didn’t want to do anything with them. Ruined their birthdays cos he wanted to sleep in etc. he refused to spend money and time on them. Said wished never had kids. Left at the start of the year for months without seeing them. Doesn’t treat them ever.

Is it just she accepts he doesn’t wamt them whereas I wanted him to be a dad

For better sex etc

Can’t be bothered with kids

[Finchie40]

Hey sweet heart , He did you a favor by cheating and leaving you , because from what you described in your post , he didn’t deserve you what so ever , He was clearly the POS in the relationship , not you , Do not blame yourself for his selfish actions , he is a complete moron , Do not change the way you are because you did no wrong in that relationship, You are a girl Most men want by their side , trust me. So do not blame yourself for his selfish actions , He is going to eventually realize how good he had it with you and kick himself in the ass for being such a fucking dumb ass. Do yourself a favor , do not take him back even if he realizes how wrong he was , do not take him back , Find yourself a Man that would not walk away from the way you treat your man. When a girl doesn’t deny her partner intimacy and affection , when she makes him feel valued and appreciated and cherishes the times spent as a family she is a damn good girl When she removes selfishness and prioritizes her partner she is a damn good girl , it won’t always be perfect but when a girl stands by her man no matter what she is a damn good girl , You ended up with a child , not a man period , that child did you a favor , that child is going to ruin the next girls’ life as well , but remember it’s no longer your problem , He is a selfish POS period

[Avicenna]

Very selfish on his part

[iseekpinetrees]

Well if you put it that way then u make it sound like he didn't want the kids. Just because kids are a byproduct of sex doesn't aways mean they were wanted in the first place.

[DaisyM23]

i don't know how anyone would have one kid, let alone THREE, with someone like that - take care of your marriage of course but not to the detriment of your children

[Paris13]

Seek a Lawyer. He needs to Pay for Those Kids. He wanted His Freedom. xxoo

[Anonymous]

Live and learn. Most men are not worth the trouble.