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He said he noticed a lot of people looking at him but they were more attractive than me.

He came home to me (it was my birthday) the following day. He slept with me took me out for dinner and told me how much he loved me many times.

Today I asked when I’d see him next he said we aren’t together. Made a new Instagram account and followed people he had previous history with that I told him I was uncomfortable about and someone he tried to cheat with. He hasn’t done this in years. I was away at the weekend with my friend and he claimed his dick was super clean now feels weird and that I must have cheated. He said I dunno if I believe you didn’t cheat. I didn’t cheat. I didn’t even talk to a single guy. I had offers but I didn’t take any and texted him
Until his phone died about how much I loved and missed him.

We had a falling out because he turned his phone off when he was out and he never does this so I asked and said holy shit you’re cheating Avis how could you do this to me etc. and he fell out with me said he was done cos I said that. Then agreed to talk agisn.

We’d be rocky because I was asking often because he seemed weird are you cheating on me? Do you have someone else? Do you hide our relationship? Etc maybe once a day some days others I wouldn’t ask at all.

Did he look at me and think I can do well better than her

Or is it revenge he knew this would hurt me in the worst way possible and now he’s trying to do that. He does think I cheated so now wants revenge or he got his ego filled and now thinks he can get whoever.

He also told me I get in the way of his goals and it isn’t against me it’s anyone he doesn’t want a relationship he wants to focus on his hobby he wants to make a full time job. He promised me he had no one else. And doesn’t want anyone. He’s not interested in anyone but made this new account and added them and didn’t add me.

All this when he said he loved me the night before

Career and financial wise?

Obviously it depends on the individual.

I think it’s funny how hairy arm pits in general tend to freak people out

A lot of people do remain friends with their exes but if someone decides to cut ties or not remain friends or even have contact with an ex, is it because there are still lingering feelings? Or is it because they wanted to move on?

generally is it a good idea to remain friends with exes?

ps - I personally cut contact with my ex because it wouldn’t be fair to my current partner who’s serious about me and secondly things didn’t go so well

I waited for almost 4 years for him to go back to school to get a financially stable job. After all these years. He’s still working minimum wage and 30 years old. I’m in my early 20s and working towards my career goal. I want us both to be financially stable but at this point, I feel like I’m wasting my time on a man who has no ambition. Is it too harsh to give him until June to do something about it? I don’t want to wait any longer tbh. 4 years is already long enough.

What's your favorite thing about being at the beach?

Hot or not?

He does not like to plan for the future. This is how he thinks in everything, not just in a love relationship. He says we cannot know the future. Yes that is right. Nobody knows the future. If a man shows his love to the one he loves, cares, but doesn't plan for the future, does it mean he's not thinking of a future with you?

My mom was suggesting for me and my boyfriend of 1.3 years to get engaged that way it’s a more “sure” thing because my uncle was telling my mom that he doesn’t want to meet my boyfriend unless he sees that we’re engaged

my boyfriend and I have been in a committed relationship for over a year now and I’ve met his entire family and they welcomed me with open arms…nobody on his end said that we had to be “engaged” in order to meet me

It is banned in some countries and doesn't prove to have real benefits. What do you think? Do you agree that it is cruel and should be stopped, do you like it, or are you indifferent about it?

I love dogs (like billions of people do), and my dog and foster puppies are literal angels on earth..
i have a friend who i adore and look up to because she’s a great person, except she’s a breeder and crops the puppies ears before selling them and it breaks my heart. I know it is everywhere and most people probably normalize it. Which is even sadder.

Do you have a rescue pup? Have you fostered? What do you think of ear cropping/breeding to sell? Photos are greatly welcomed (literally would make my day!)

I sing and hum more than I speak in real life. I sing during classes, hum during showers, hum along while playing piano, sometimes I will sing out of nowhere startling everyone inside the room, or even hum like a crazy person while munching on some snacks while taking a short break with each bite and then continue. So basically, I sing and him around the whole day, my vocal chords work as much as my heart. Sometimes my mom and sister caught me singing while sleeping too! I've been like this since I learnt controlling my voice as 1.5 yr old. It started from trying to imitate my mom's lullaby. That's what makes me a natural vocalist except the fact that puberty stole that well built voice.

My friends who are my benchmates and my sister, they're are so done with this habit of mine that they actually feel empty when I'm totally quite.

28F, I don’t think my standards are that unreasonable. I think I have a decent idea of how most people perceive me, with that being said I feel I should be able to attract the kind of guy I’d want. Cute looks, tall, smart, decent job, good sense of humor etc. The last time I saw someone was when I was 23 & it felt like settling which is why I refuse to ever see someone like that again. If you’re in a relationship now, did you hold those standards or have to compromise/settle because you couldn’t find what you really wanted?

As a teenager I believed I was too stupid to study medicine or rocket science but now I believe I can attain any intelligence level I want if I’m willing to practice for it and train for it. As an example, my creativity has improved with practice over the years and so has my memory.

Or should I take it easy with her since she is still young? If yes what kind of cardio should she do? In the picture we are doing stair climbing