When you are rich you are magnet. Earlier, it was difficult for men to get a woman if they were poor, but nowadays it has become very important for women to be rich and to be in a high position if they want to get someone's love and attention.
I don’t know what kinda place you live in, but a male will hardly if ever care how rich or what position you are as long as you look stunning and can carry yourself in a certain way.
@shamalien i said what i saw.
it depends but there more issue with having money and might get more Golder digger or lazy person.
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It makes things more difficult as many people like someone for their money which makes the relationship doomed from the beginning.
this is why i dont tell anyone
m @Monalisa77 Good call.
Money and success makes it easier to find someone but that may not be love. Gold diggers abound.
It gets you access to some people you otherwise probably would not have a chance to meet for a relationship, but you need to be adept at screening out bad actors since you have more to lose.
As a woman it appears to make it harder, because most people are just barely making it. So naturally, the pool of eligible men decreases. Next, most women prefer a man be making at least as much as she's making, and from what I've seen most women prefer he makes more. Further, women on average tend to have more requirements for the men they date, which further decreases the pool of eligible men. So based on those observations alone, yes, success does make it harder to find love as a woman. I think the key to finding love as a successful woman in todays dating market, is to avoid sacrificing your femininity in order to gain success in the corporate world. From what I've seen, its the abundance of masculine qualities that actually what makes it tougher for successful women to find love, rather than her success. Because on average, most men don't really care about how much money a woman makes, or how successful she is. Men and women definitely value different things when it comes to dating, and thats where I think tends to confuse both genders when dating. We are equal, but we aren't the same, and it's the polarity we find most attractive in each other.
Facts my man
It certainty does for a male, i think it does the opposite for females but they’re left with high-value options especially so it isn’t all terrible.
It gives a man more options, therefore more leverage and a list to patiently check off from like what females generally do when selecting a partner. (Unless you’re like Leonardo Di Caprio, then the only requirement is them having to be under the age of 25) they say that money doesn’t make happy, and that’s true but it certainly makes things easier including love and can allow you to afford the sense of happiness. Being successful inherently gives you more confidence, more connections, and people who get to know you. Therefore your chances at love increase ten-fold, not just that but humans love a winner. Both sexes do, although different because cultural-differences exist. What i personally think: Yes, but having it easier doesn’t necessarily make it better and certainly doesn’t mean that love will endure.
When you meet a girl they ask three questions (usually in a roundabout way)
1. Are you single?
2. What is your net asset backing?
3. What is your cash flow?
After getting satisfactory answers to all three, most girls
1. Enthusiastically accept any invitation you make
2. Prefer to talk about themselves from there on.
So being a success object can indeed get you a sex object.
I've always made the second point as a sarcastic comment on female self obsession. But I now realize I have always been wrong. With guys it matters WHAT you are. I can tersely say 'Engineer' and it is done. With girls it matters WHO they are and that obviously takes a couple of hours.
NONE of the women I have dated, including my Ex-wife asked me those Qs!
@Guardian45 Still your ex-wife though bud whaha
@DamianTheSmikkelbeer. I only want health, happiness, and love. PERIOD!
@Guardian45 Great way to live King, hope you’re killing it
It depends. It’s more about the person you are becoming rather than the amount of money you make or have.
If someone is approaching it correctly, they can use their business and career as a vehicle for personal-development.
They can use it as a learning tool to build their character, hone their communication skills, and develop their leadership abilities.
Through that process, a man can come out to be much more attractive—because they have actually grown from the challenges they’ve learned to overcome.
However, if they scammed or cheated to make their money, they will have only become corrupt. So, it needs to be done right.
And also, some people are just focused on making money rather than improving themselves as a person, learning, and growing.
It really is what you make of it.
So it depends. If done right, it can definitely help. If done wrong, it may actually hurt.
For men’s attraction to women, it’s not about money. It’s about whether they are an enjoyable romantic companion.
So, it’s very much about how they can make their man feel. (e. g. Loved, desired, validated, cared for, respected, understood, supported, etc.)
When a man is finished with a hard day’s work, will they be embraced by someone that comforts them?
That’s where it’s at. 👌
There’s a reason why the hostess clubs in Japan are in such demand. The men that go there after work want love and attention and comfort, even if this just a facade.
Superficial characteristics such as wealth, status or looks make dating easier but not love. Love is about who the other person is inside, so it has nothing to do with external characteristics. I would argue that it actually makes it harder, as most people who pursue you want you in a shallow way (for the things you have, not because they like you as a person.)
Whole life becomes mostly easier with more money including love and friendship. There are gotchas like golddiggers and people who kiss your ass because you're so famous, but I think way better at least in my experience than living poor and worrying about how to pay the bills next month.
There's probably a threshold since I'm not so famous a real celebrity like Michael Jackson. That seems like kind of a nightmare. But I think for most people, having more money helps a bit.
@Haha456 For sure, but we can spend more time with our friends and wives if we aren't working three jobs to make ends meet. As long as time is valuable to our wives, husbands, and friends, then I figure money alleviates the amount of time we have to spend on our jobs. I figure we value the same things; some extra money helps to spend more time with people we cherish.
@Haha456 To be clear, I am not talking about working like Elon Musk level at 110+ hours/week. That's going to alienate almost everyone no matter how much you make. I'm just talking about having enough money that we don't have to worry about how to make ends meet: how to pay the bills next month, how to deal with a family member dying, how to deal with our loved ones being diagnosed with cancer.
@Haha456 If you have a social problem, for sure, that might be even higher priority. But I think most of us are just about paying the bills. I think maybe we think this is bigger problem now in newer generations because people have video games with such immersive worlds, mobile phone with social media, etc. But in my generation, paying bills is bigger priority and most of us were likable enough since we didn't spend that much time in the basement.
This is such a difficult one to answer, as so much depends on how the person makes their money and on their attitudes to life and other people.
I know people that have made, literally millions, but have no partners and very little social lives, partly because they treat people so badly and are obsessed with money and showing it. I have other friends that are not financially wealthy, but are the most lovely people that others just love being around. So much depends on the person and not the money.
I think just easier because you’re more likely to meet high value people. Now high value people doesn’t automatically translate into having a lot of money. But it means they’re more likely to have good work ethic, as in work hard, be disciplined, understand commitment etc.
I would think it'd depend on your search. If I even think how much money I make/have is a factor with her then we're done.
It's not hard for me because I have a pretty good idea of what type of a woman is the right match for me in regards to money matters. And this point Is minimally negotiable. I'd rather be alone than be with someone that didn't share my philosophy on money.
Making a lot of money makes men have more options, (not necessarily options that a decent man will want long term though), but it usually does nothing for women when they make a lot of money.
Why nothing for woman? Yeah man have options, but a decent part of options still want to reach man's money, nothing else.
@Darkrainbow In simple terms, wealth isn't a good indicator for if a woman will produce strong off-spring. Men mostly rely on a woman's looks and character to judge that. Also, there are cultural factors that make men avoid wealthy women because they tend to be high maintenance. Women, though, do use wealth as one good indicator of a man's ability to be a good provider and protector for off-spring.
This holds even for people who don't want off-spring because it's hard-wired biologically.
@Chthou95
Just because there are fewer male gild diggers, it does not mean there are no male gold diggers.
There are plenty of broke men out there looking for a sugar mama so they can stay home to play video games all day and get free sex anytime he wants.
you're deluding yourself if you think no man wants that
@Chthou95
Less male gold diggers does not mean no male gold diggers.
I've worked with broke men doing security work. Trust me, there are plenty of guys who would date a rich woman for her money
Only difference between rich men and women is that men are much more likely to want a gold digger. Than vice versa
@Haha456 There are plenty of homeless people who became millionaires. Doesn't mean most homeless can or will become millionaires. In general men dont care about womens finances. If men want to date Jennifer Lopez or Beyonce it ain't because they're rich, its because men want to go fuck those women. Has nothing to do with finance
@Haha456 You’re not even disagreeing with then, you’re trying to proof a point to what they’ve already agreed to. Just stop wasting your time, men seek different things from females then females do with men and that’s a simple fact.
@DamianTheSmikkelbeer
seems like you just have a hard time about the fact that gold digger men do exist.
@Haha456 I dont care about what you've seen. I've seen so and so do this or I've seen so and so do that. Im talking in the general sense and you keep using exceptions. Exceptions dont disprove the rule. In general men dont care about your finances. Most men want to have sex with the woman, not because she's rich
@Chthou95
they're not exceptions , hun. There are millions of broke men who would love to date beyonce not only for sex but also for her money.
its just that you can't accept the fact that there are men out there who are gold diggers.
they're not rare either. Go to any ghetto or poor community, there will ALWAYS be a line of men wanting a sugar mama.
@Haha456 Most men will date them to fuck them. This is the problem that i notice with women. If women are generally known for doing something the go to is that men do it too. Again In GENERAL. That's the key word in GENERAL men dont care about finances nor do most men chase a women for her earnings. Why are you arguing for the exceptions? We have to live by generalities not exceptions because generalities are consistent patterns of society.
@Chthou95 I don't know where you live, but in my country, I have heard many times that men dream about marrying wealthy women. Even families sometimes choose these women over poorer ones. I'm not saying that everybody is like that, but I definitely don't consider that type to be rare or an exception.
@Darkrainbow Men will tell you whatever they have to, to fuck you. Im a guy and and a lot of men say shit to girls to get what they want but don't actually mean it. In general men dont get turned on or find it attractive if you're wealthy. Society tells this bullshit lie that men and women are the same and want the same things. Notice how i never say that i never use anecdotal evidence. I use the general rule to things. And in general men fomt care about money or success as much as women do. Women care about it way more
@Chthou95 The part you don't seem to understand is that the men I mentioned, who are interested in marrying a rich woman, did not personally tell me that. You're suggesting that men are telling you because they want fuck u :d
I learned about this through social surveys and conversations among men. Additionally, I live in a very patriarchal country where women generally find men who prioritize a woman's money very unattractive. However, there are still enough men who hold this belief that they are not considered exceptions.
@Darkrainbow There are exceptions to every rule. But the outlier does not outweigh the generalities. Most men meaning that the majority of men do nor care. We care about your looks, personality and if you'll be s good mother for our children. Men dont care about finances. You've been brainwashed by feminism to believe this lie
@Chthou95
do you realize what men do in Dominican republic? whenever they see an American woman, they all would be begging her for marriage regardless if she is 25 or 59 years old. I know of plenty of hot young Dominican men married to much older women from america so that she can send money back to him.
@Chthou95
it does not matter what the generalities are.
you're acting as if a woman absolutely cannot find a gold digger. YES SHE CAN FIND A GOLD DIGGER. Male gold diggers are not rare. They exist in abundance especially in poorer countries.
Its just that rich men want gold diggers way more than rich women.
@Haha456 sis he clearly doesn't want to accept it :d
@Haha456 Yeah theyll be begging her because she's young attractive and fertile. Not because she has money. Now the women on the other hand, yes they will look at an American guy and see finances. Someome that can support them. They'd be looking at different things while men are looking at other things
@Haha456 “In general men dont give a shit about a women's finances. Men and women aren't the same. Both genders look for different things” and that’s the fact of it all, sure there are exceptions but it can’t be compared with females. Females look for providers in one way or another, males do not apart from that emotional comfort they bring and sensitivity they open up by a man. Males tend to find women with a big paycheck a little scary and try to avoid them unless they really show interest and make it clear they’re attracted to them, even then some men might avoid it. Read his comments, he never denied it. Just said that money hardly mattered for a man when it comes to females, that’s not a thing a man cares about with a woman. We’re much more interested in other things.
@Haha456 That’s not just because women are rich, those type of women are more mature, independent, loyal and feisty in their own ways. And older women can be attractive and more fuck-able then younger women, it’s true that men regardless of age are generally atrracted to females in their 20’s but a age higher then that still can be attractive. Men generally don’t chase a woman over money and doesn’t solely stay with her for money, and that’s a fact. Exceptions exists where women are used sure, but it’s not the same. And these women you talk about do it on purpose a lot of the time, they’re successful and they know it so they select a small selection of young males who’re attractive and have endurance and they’re easy to form into this image of a perfect partner as they’re inexperienced and more willing to change to stay with them.
@Chthou95 @DamianTheSmikkelbeer
poor men in the Dominican republic are begging to marry a rich woman from america. They see americans as rich. A lot of hot young men married to significantly older women over there. Doesn't matter if you don't like hearing this. Truth is, if rich women WILL ALWAYS BE ABLE to find a gold digger. Its just that rich women don't want gold diggers as much as rich men.
@DamianTheSmikkelbeer
[That’s not just because women are rich, those type of women are more mature, independent, loyal and feisty in their own ways. ]
believe it or not, in the Philippines and Dominican republic (traditionally very poor countries), its very easy to find a single young attractive man looking to marry a rich woman.
[Men generally don’t chase a woman over money and doesn’t solely stay with her for money, and that’s a fact. ]
thats because you have never been under poverty. When you're eating one meal a day and dont even have heat in the winter. You will want to marry a rich woman. There are kids in Philippines who beg their parents all night to buy them a jar of peanut butter for the household. But parents can never afford it.
Americans like you are spoiled and dont understand what life is like being poor. Of course you would say its impossible for a man to marry a woman for her money.
Say this again after you starve eating one meal a day for 20 years.
If you are a man, it’s easier because women want a man with money, success, etc… for women it’s harder because the more women make, the more they don’t want men, and if they are making the money, then men usually dont care about there money. So it’s usually worse for women.
I have no time for love to be honest, I am so busy.
Making money is going well though.
Do you only look for men who make more money than you? Or does that not matter?
@Guardian45 doesn’t matter
Thank you. What is wrong with guys on this Q?
@Guardian45 My ex fiance had 10 times less salary when we hot together. We broke up when he got successful and blinded by his mew opportunities. It’s not always women who pay too much attention to money. This time the only reason I’ll pay attention to the financial side of a man is that I know he has got it all and still chooses me.
I only want health, happiness, and love. PERIOD!
@Guardian45 I want the same. However, I am going to be aware that it’s not necessary to put myself away to support his career, he got so successful only because I was by his side and everytime he told me he was the loser I told him he wasn’t, and I am sure if he tried again, he’d do it better.
I am not going to do that again. I will support him, but I am going to support and believe in myself first.
And I would like to have a hard working man by my side, other than that I don’t care about his money.
Money is the no one dating criterion for men to get dates. Without money, you can be intelligent, hardworking, caring, and lots of others but every girl will still think of you as a child and your personality suck, with money, you can be as bad as possible still you can get plenty of women. But if you want to attract good women you still have to be relatively good, but money's the sole decider.
m made no difference to me...
even when I had no money, still had a relationship... lol
It depends. Usually rich people can afford to go nice resorts and there are a lot of hot women there trying tp meet some rich guy and get married.
@Haha456 Both?
@DamianTheSmikkelbeer
someone marrying you for your money does not mean she is married to you. She may very well come home to suck your dick every night while she loves someone else
@exitseven
its usually the girls without career options that tend to marry for money.
@Haha456 Well luckily money can make problems go away.
@DamianTheSmikkelbeer
money doesn't solve all problems. money can only solve money problems. no amount of money can buy you real love.
@Haha456 Sure gives you more options and reasons to be loved, money gives options and gives you leverage and that’s what any man wants with women
@DamianTheSmikkelbeer
I'm the road to making 100 dollars an hour at my job. The last thing I want to be married to someone who is just with me because of my money. You've got to be pretty desperate and hopeless in order to want a gold digger like that.
easier for men, harder for women.
For men it opens up your options
for women, it reduces your options (pricing yourself out of the market for finding someone at your level or higher)
Money, power, success, look are always beneficial in matter attracting others. The disadvantage it attracts parasites either
may make finding love more difficult because you won't know if someone is only dating you for your money
Easier in some ways because it opens a lot of doors but a bit more difficult to filter out who’s a gold digger.
Well looking at this buckaroo. Anything is a good question. Love and wild 🎸😀
Harder because it's an extra thing people can use or deceive you for so if you are successful and seeking for love, keep it on the low 🤐
Mixed. It probably makes meeting people easier, but unless the person is at a similar economic level there is also the question of whether the person is into you or your money.
I would like to say none of the above. Money doesn't buy love there's is a difference between loving somebody for who they are as opposed to the person's wallet. Are you love with the money or the person? One should ask themselves.
They say it makes thing harder for girls, and easier for guys.
Huh? Why?
Way easier for men at least. Women love rich men.
the only things that will make it harder is either working for very long times (at the expense of dating) or people trying to use you for money.
Easier for men, because women are attracted to wealth. It does not work the other way around.
Actually harder, IMHO. Wouldn't know whether it's you or your money the other person is dating.
Harder. With a lot of money it's very hard to tell who desires you for you or for the things you have and can offer to them.
In general I think it makes it easier for men and a little harder for women.
Huh? Why?
@Guardian45 Because women want providers, and men not so much.
What if the woman is making a LOT of money?
@Guardian45 I already earn a lot of money so that isn't really appealing to me.
Not to you, but to other guys it might be.
@Guardian45 I'm sure it is to some guys, but not the majority. The question was a general one, and my answer is generally correct.
Money talks. Money rocks.
So I voted B 😒
Having money gives you less problems in life. Having more money than you need has tendencies to give you more problems.
Not always the case. Money doesn't always buy happiness one or two parties can have tons of money and still find excuses to be miserable.
@JustBeingReal727 yeah I thought I said that. Basically having no money is horrible. But sounds like having all the money is just as horrible.
A survey years ago put the level of happiness at $70k a year. Which makes sense. Just enough to keep you working for what you want. But not too much to be bored as fck like Bezos and build a yacht for his bigger yacht to tow.
for a man, easier, but i just broke up with a girl for having a successful career she was a burden and had not enough free time for me
No not finding love, but it will probably make it easier to find partners..
It makes it easier for men not so much for women
It makes it more likely you'll date someone from work.
It's too Damm hard...
Because you never know what the intentions are
If you mean partner or girlfriend or wife, yes its very easy to get with a lot of money. But money can't buy a real love from somebody.
It depends on if you are looking for a certain salary requirement or not.
Make boatloads of money or date. Hmmm. Which will make me happiest?
I only want health, happiness, and love. PERIOD!
Most women don’t actually love rich guys, they just like to use them for fancy items
It makes no difference to me.
Thank you. We seem to be the ONLY 2 sane people here! WdaH?
As a man it makes it easier but for women it makes it harder
It depends if the money then influences who you associate with
For men it helps to have money
for women…well be prepared to date down
I think being succesful makes it easier!
Easier for men, harder for women
Huh? Why?
What is your evidence please?
I'm not convinced
I don't think it's the reality
Nahh
Ty. What is it with all these $$$ hungry idiots?
@Guardian45 i think if they were too pampered, they’re used to it OR if they were never pampered, they seek it so badly. The majority of things i wanted in life are not materialistic so im not affected by money as much
I only want health, happiness and love. PERIOD!
@Guardian45 100%
It depends on who you are dealing with.
Easier for men. Harder for women.
Huh? Why?
@Guardian45 Because women are still ruled by their lizard brain. So they want to be dominated. They want to submit to someone who is better than them. They want to feel inadequate because it makes them feel special if they are chosen.
What if the woman is making a LOT of money?
@Guardian45 Doesn't matter. She'll still want someone richer than her.
Hmmm. I'm not convinced. Any rvidence?
@Guardian45 Just look around, dude. It's easily observable. Get out and talk to people.
I think we know different people
i believe this just enhances the person you are.
It helps men. It hurts women.
Easier for men. Women LOVE money!
I say easier
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