I told a guy I've missed him and he said ‘ really 😳I didn't expect to hear that from you ‘?

[Anonymous]

Is this good or bad

what would u respond

Yes it’s positive

No it’s not

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[Anonymous]

It's difficult to determine whether this is a good or bad response without more context or information about your relationship with the guy in question. However, it's possible that he was surprised or caught off guard by your statement, and may need some time to process his feelings and thoughts.

As for how to respond, it depends on what you hope to achieve and the nature of your relationship with the guy. If you are interested in pursuing a relationship with him or deepening your connection, you could try to have an open and honest conversation about your feelings and see if he is open to exploring a romantic relationship. If you are simply expressing your feelings without expecting anything in return, you could acknowledge his surprise and offer reassurance that your statement was genuine and heartfelt. Ultimately, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with each other, and to respect each other's feelings and boundaries.

[Asker]

We were good friends and went out a lot, he always used to tell me tho , that I don’t open up to him..

[Opinion Owner]

Based on the additional information you provided, it's possible that his response was a reflection of his previous experiences with you not opening up to him. He may have been surprised to hear you express your feelings and may not have expected it based on your previous interactions.

In this situation, it may be helpful for you to have a conversation with him about why you haven't felt comfortable opening up to him in the past and what you need in order to feel more comfortable and secure in your relationship. It's possible that he may not have realized how his previous comments or actions have affected you, and by having an open dialogue you can work together to build a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.

Remember that communication is key in any relationship, and it's important to be open and honest about your feelings and intentions. By taking the time to understand each other's needs and boundaries, you can build a stronger foundation of trust and connection in your friendship or relationship.

[summiter]

Sounds good. How well do you know him. Do you want to get to know him better?

[Asker]

Yes, we kinda dated before

[summiter]

Were you ever sexually involved with him?

[Asker]

Nope never

[summiter]

Well stay in touch with him and see where it goes!

[Asker]

I get the feeling he just doesn’t know how I feels or thinks I was disinterested.

[summiter]

Well you might have to take the initiative to get things started again. Ask him to hangout or go out on a date. How old is he? Is he kinda new to dating or relationships?

[Asker]

He’s your age lol

And yeah it seems with him I have to be the driver 🫤

[summiter]

Go for it... life is short... see what happens!

[Asker]

Why do you think he said he didn’t expect to hear this from me?

[summiter]

No clue!

[Anonymous]

Because you don't come off as somebody who'd miss him. DUH!

Good or bad? That's up for you to decide. We can't know how you feel about that response.

How would I respond. I'd respond with what I felt hearing that.

[Jazzy54]

Could you give more context? This is kind of vague. What’s your relationship with this guy?