Polls

I'm asking if you would ever pass up on someone even if you're confident in the short term because you feel like you wouldn't be good enough in the long term. If so, please share your experience. What were/are you confident/unconfident about?

Maybe you're confident for whatever reason at first impressions, maybe you're at least somewhat good looking with a few good jokes but in the long term you're just broke, irresponsible or boring.

Maybe you're just really good with words in the beginning because you've gone on lots of first dates but you always get it wrong on following dates.

Just for fun

Which one do you do?

Personally, I prefer befriending someone first to get to really know them and develop romantic feelings for them before I would agree to go on a date with them.

Also, is it a generational thing?

I’m in a relationship for 4 years now. My boyfriend and I have some incompatibilities like different interests, sex drive, and financial stability. The things I want to do, he doesn’t want to do which is also one of the causes why I feel bored. Or maybe I’m just bored and grown out of this relationship. There's not much wrong with my relationship, but sometimes I don’t feel like I want to be in a relationship. I want to date more people and see if there’s better out there. Is there any advice on what I should do because he’s a good guy, we get along, we even have a good time sometimes. I want to break up but then I also don’t. I don’t know what I should do anymore.

Did you want to be lighter, darker or tanned? I just noticed in Asia, where I am at right now, most people want to be light skinned. They are obsessed with fair skin products. I’m Filipino and I always loved my skin colour. How about you?

And did it eventually come? If so, how long after?

The days are getting closer, and the flights are already booked.

Do you agree or not? I love BBQ chicken with mac & cheese for certain.