I think it shows a lack of manners. Am I making a big deal over nothing or is he probably a selfish pig?
I’d personally wash a container before handing it back to someone.
Otherwise, I’d be making them wash more dishes, right?
I wouldn’t want to do that.
But, if someone didn’t do it for me, I wouldn’t assume the worst.
Sometimes people honestly don’t know any better.
Timing makes a difference though.
If they handed me an empty container, and they didn’t have access to a kitchen sink before handing it back, that would be acceptable.
(If they found some other way around that to clean the container anyway, I may even ask them how they managed to pull that off, haha.)
But, if they had the opportunity to take it home, or worse it’s been longer than a day, then yes, handing back a dirty container would be pretty inconsiderate and it would also make me question their cleanliness.
If they are simply a dirty person, maybe they didn’t grow up with the best parents, and honestly didn’t know any better.
I’d be willing to teach them and show them.
But, if I find out that they are just lazy…
THEN, that’s a red flag.
So, I’m pretty patient with someone and I give them the benefit of the doubt before I finally consider something a red flag.
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we'll, he's a poorly trained idiot slob. As well, possible that his "mommy" did everything for him and he never learned. There are lots of those around, I pickup their trash on the side of the road of these idiots (and some are females) all the time.
If you'd like the job of retraining one, stay with him. We all appreciate your hard work and effort although it could be frustrating. So, society creates medications and has many therapists available for when you need it.
Alternately, challenge him on this for what is appropriate and see if he makes the change. Evaluate his home for cleanliness and order (always check if there is a maid) and if his cat litter box is clean.
Then decide.
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It is very baad manner that he can't even wash it container. In fact if someone gave us food or anything in container we should always give back by wash it and put some eatable item in it then give it back. Because i have hi k giving back an empty container is baad manner for me.
Well, that's totally up to you. A simple thing to ask them to clean it after returning is a must in some cases or you could mention after you get it and ask them to do so. You're not their mom, but at the same time, its just a minor inconvenience. It's not like they destroyed it.
You should probably mention it to him, but you really do not need to make a big deal out of it. If you still think you do, you would probably be doing him a favor by breaking up with him.
It could be that they have a lack of manners, but it wouldn't be enough for me to go on.
instant deal breaker for me...
The note said please return. it did not say wash. I think it shows that he is good at following directions.
Kinda weak, tbh. Haha. I definitely would have washed it first.
But you can give him a warning if you want. :)I agree he should have cleaned it, but don’t find it a big enough of a problem to stop liking him.
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