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She is 25 and he is 29. He said he is just having a gut feeling they won't work out and being ADHD, he follows it. He also said he feels like she is more invested and loves him more than he loves her.

They have been together 4 years.

However they didn't finish the conversation just kind of walked away from it. When she asked the next morning if they were together or broken up, again met with silence and both just kind of walked away from it.

As she was leaving, he gave her a hug and kiss (he rarely does, not a real affectionate person) so she found that strange. SO she was like, "Are we good? Like we're going to try and work things out?" He said, "we're good, i'll call you later"

When he called they just talked like normal about work, their day, etc. So she is so confused on how to handle the situation without scaring him into rethinking breaking up but also she needs to know. WHY would he all of a sudden show a grand gesture of emotion and call her if he was so adamant about breaking it off?

He’s now come back after months asking about my life and telling me about his new job

why

Hi everyone. So I am three months into my new job, and I am a bit of a "floater" meaning that I float between two apartments (Accounting and Estimating)

I am not from an accounting background so of course I made a few mistakes which were quite annoying, but I am not from an accounting background, but I do work hard which people see and I take initiative.

I had a three-month review with my director and he said that he likes having me here and there I am doing well.

Well today, I saw an email which I wasn't supposed to see and my director asked for a meeting with an admin person and my accountant superior and in the email, it had a few dot points for discussion and the last bit of the email read the following:

"I would like to discuss (my name) and her helping out with accounts. Is it working? Is it not working? Is it something that (my colleague) can pick up because she is looking for more work? If it isn't working I will look for an alternative solution"

Last Thursday, he did mention that he is going to look at making me focus more on estimating rather than accounts in a few months.

I felt that the email sounded ominous. Am I paranoid?

“Money does not MAKE you, it EXPOSES you”

Purely based on my experience, this statement is true. Proven so many times in my life so far!

Do actors subconsciously mirror their character? (SOMETIMES)?

And if so, is it also morphed into OTHER previous characters, they’d resemble in their personal lives?

IF this occurs, is it based PURELY on the:

likability of their character?

OR

the habitual constancy of enacting their given character? Regardless of the character quirks: positive or negative

My logic here is:

these people are LITERALLY pretending to be someone with a bunch of other people they have never met until that time. A whole season would mean a few months of practicing aka redoing lines & takes

OVER & OVER again…

not only so (this said muscle memory)

but they’re seeing the faces of the new characters and instead of building friendships with those other actors in real time- they are essentially watching those characters (played by the actors) unfold before them as if it were a real engagement/ friendship/encounter.

So if the series is long & many seasons go by-

wouldn’t a single actor who’s learning another actor express (not themselves but the wishes & behaviors of the director), & pretending for so long…

Adopt the traits, assigned to that actor, and make it almost 2nd nature?

maybe not a whole belief/ moral

but the quirks/behavioral traits?

For example:

if their character is loud- they will become loud in their everyday lives.

if their character is loud but they are quiet in person, they may become more balanced between loud & quiet in their personal lives?

The range cannot be so well predicted-

the just HOW much they will be of their character/ just how loud they would be, for example.

& was Robert Downey Jr.’s Iron man, fitted for his persona? Or did RDJ truly adopt traits & the personal display of Iron Man?

Do actors typically choose roles/ characters that fit more with their own character traits/ beliefs?

Ideally, I’d love to hear what Morgan Freeman would say, BUT

I’m curious & would be extremely humbled/ grateful to read your liberated opinions.

I've never seen him for whole a year after we broke up. The reason we broke up was his work got in the way and he broke up with me because he thought he couldn't spend enough time with me. Now he says that he has handled his work and school and that he will not leave me from now on. at the same time, he hasn't been with anyone since he broke up with me.

So, I work at a childcare Center and every lunch hour I video chat my boyfriend with headphones on. People were complaining about it (sometimes I didn’t have headphones - which that is understandable -, but it is still a problem with my staff and they never came to me, they just went straight to the supervisor). Anyways, I tried going into different rooms, including in between the front doors (which I’ve done before and was never a problem then). Now my supervisor has told me that if I wanna talk to my boyfriend, I have to do it in the laundry room. Is this considered discrimination? I legit wanna know, I’m not tryna whine about my situation.

Does that mean they are interested?

America is now refusing to rule out alien craft. They are no longer calling the things they shot down balloons but rather "objects" speculating they may not be of this earth.

But what are the consequences of popping alien balloons? (sorry objects). Could we start an intergalactic war? Ruin interplanetary trade agreements? Be forced to admit all those "probing" stories were real?