Family always comes first. At what point does the significant other become family?

[brandzzz]

At what point does the significant other become: family?

Right away

At “I love you”

Wedding day

Never, “they are not blood”

Other

A total of 49 votes were cast: 25 girls and 24 guys. See detailed results

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+1 y

I’m saying at “I ❤️ you”.

[melanieeeB]

When they're like family to you and you know the love is sincere and they also start seeing you as family and I also, personally, would add that your families know each other.
You don't have to be married for that, you also don't marry your friends and some of them can become family too

[xoxosilentgirl]

by marriage or when start making a family together (having or adopt a baby)

[AdithyaR]

I believe it's when you love them enough that you consider them family. I've got friends that I'm close enough to call family, doesn't mean i have to marry them in order to legitimise that. Same would apply for a partner.

[Guy13]

About 5 years married. Men and Women supposed to leave their parents and cleave to one another while making babies, spreading, and taking dominion over the earth.

[Sasha0426]

LMAO 🤣

[Sparkie460]

When you get married they legally become family. Some families accept them before hand. With my wife and I our families accepted us into the family after 2 years of dating.

[pupluv45]

it comes long after the wedding day. when both individuals start having children. they will finally see each other less as lovers but more as family. its very hard to treat your lover as your family until the kids come.

[Cubus]

When you have children.

If you're dating someone that doesn't make that person a family.

[Iron_Man]

Family always comes first one day that special woman will be family when she’s ready

[brandzzz]

What if she’s ready, and he’s not. What’s the breaking point?

[Iron_Man]

Then she’s got to wait for him to be ready

[genericname85]

when you have a child. cause only then are you "by definition" a family.

[Vaporvan]

At marriage. It is the joining of two as one and then you're each other's family. You have to put one another and any children you have first.

[DizzyDesii]

Family comes first over friends but they wouldn't come first over God nor my future (kids, husband, etc). The moment we enter a longterm relationship, I’m already putting him before the fam

[DizzyDesii]

Im not sure if i could say “At i love you” because that could happen anywhere between month 1 and 3. But i’ll say if he makes it to the 6 month marks, he's certainly before them. I’ve been guilty of putting them before fam way before that but i’d say 6+ feels right

[brandzzz]

I’m not sure about putting them before the family that’s had my back my entire life at this point. But, if I’m that case perhaps an equal? 🤷‍♀️

[DizzyDesii]

My fam hasn't always had my back so its easy for me to out others before them. But even if they would have, the guy is my future, they are my past

[MadAndBankrupt]

Wedding day, when I have papers of her ownership😂

[Mayo503]

You got to let he/she in sometimes because it will put stress on the relationship….

[Nikki1989]

When he becomes your husband.

[CubsterShura]

At engagement or wedding.

[suzzieQ]

Once they have children or get married

[Anonymous]

ONLY when married.

[Opinion Owner]

AND if you have a child together. that's it.

[SpokenTruth]

God always comes first followed by family.

[Anonymous]

When you have a kiddo