Who comes first after marriage: your parents or your spouse?

[ClosetHoe]

My parents

My spouse

Other

[OlderAndWiser]

Genesis 2:24

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

[modelUN242]

That's my favourite verse, I love using it with momma's boys

[OlderAndWiser]

@modelUN242 It sums up much about what a marriage should be.

[COMMODOREII]

In Matthew 19: 4-6 it states.
He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
You are apart of your spouse now and it is all between you from now on. Your parents have no say.

[KiPanther]

I think it obviously depends on the type of relationship you have with both parties but it’s difficult to “choose”

[Prettygurl12]

If you're unwilling to make your spouse the number one person in your life then please don't get married.

[Ripper_E]

Once you get married, that person needs to be your priority because you are committing your entire life to that person and them to you. If you aren't ready for that, then don't get married. People do anyway, because they are imbeciles that don't understand that love is not enough, and that's why people get divorced so much.

[SClassWizzard]

The thing is, the parents will automatically always be first, unless you have a unhealthy relationship with them and don;'t talk to them or whatever.

But in this case, the spouse would come first.

The parents in this case are included and excluded because, as i said, they always have been first. Its not a spot they fought for or choose, its already been there.

[JCNEEGAR]

You just want to keep everything balanced, Your spouse is going to spend the rest or their life with you, and your parents were the one that got you to this point in the first place.

[JPrez]

Your spouse. Your duties lie with them and your kids (if you have them). Your parents can certainly be helped but not at the expense of your spouse.

[DavidDong]

If its directly after, parents have experience, know your loyalties, you live for the spouse but like very much take into account the parents

That's your answer in my opinion

[Anti-Matter]

You are not married to your parents, so I question how they’re supposed
to come before your spouse?

[cheapshotbob]

i think that 14% still lives at home lol, the spouse is your family , your own family comes 2and and i would let them know.

[Red_Arrow]

Sometimes I cum first, and sometimes my partner cums first. Sometimes we cum at the same time. 😀

[blutwolfe]

that's a no brainer I don't have parents lol, and I would put her first anyway

[BobbyC65]

The wife then spouse then back and forth share and share-alike. 💞

[geonator]

You voluntarily chose to put your spouse first by marrying them and vowing to put them first

[skunkbeard68]

I don't want to think about my parents Cumming, but then again I guess they did first. 😅

[asshole_]

spouse

and then once you have a kid, your kid comes first

[888theGreat]

It better be your spouse or you are not going to be married long.

[hknmhmn4]

Of course parents

Is this even a question lol

[Anonymous]

I guess that depends on your relationship with either, your spouse is now your family too so it really depends on what it is of importantence

[berwise13]

It should be your spouse but many fights are because of this.

[PaulyChicago]

Depends on the situation. Family usually comes first but it may be my spouse pending the situation.

[EmmaMary]

Without a doubt, my husband (spouse).

[nice-girl]

Of course the spouse.