Who comes first after marriage: your parents or your spouse?

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COMMODOREII · Accepted Answer

In Matthew 19: 4-6 it states.
He answered, “Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
You are apart of your spouse now and it is all between you from now on. Your parents have no say.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

KiPanther · Accepted Answer

I think it obviously depends on the type of relationship you have with both parties but it’s difficult to “choose”

Prettygurl12 · Accepted Answer

If you're unwilling to make your spouse the number one person in your life then please don't get married.

Ripper_E · Answer

Once you get married, that person needs to be your priority because you are committing your entire life to that person and them to you. If you aren't ready for that, then don't get married. People do anyway, because they are imbeciles that don't understand that love is not enough, and that's why people get divorced so much.

SClassWizzard · Answer

The thing is, the parents will automatically always be first, unless you have a unhealthy relationship with them and don;'t talk to them or whatever.

But in this case, the spouse would come first.

The parents in this case are included and excluded because, as i said, they always have been first. Its not a spot they fought for or choose, its already been there.

JCNEEGAR · Answer

You just want to keep everything balanced, Your spouse is going to spend the rest or their life with you, and your parents were the one that got you to this point in the first place.

JPrez · Answer

Your spouse. Your duties lie with them and your kids (if you have them). Your parents can certainly be helped but not at the expense of your spouse.

DavidDong · Answer

If its directly after, parents have experience, know your loyalties, you live for the spouse but like very much take into account the parents That's your answer in my opinion

Anti-Matter · Answer

You are not married to your parents, so I question how they’re supposed to come before your spouse?

cheapshotbob · Answer

i think that 14% still lives at home lol, the spouse is your family , your own family comes 2and and i would let them know.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Sometimes I cum first, and sometimes my partner cums first. Sometimes we cum at the same time. 😀

blutwolfe · Answer

that's a no brainer I don't have parents lol, and I would put her first anyway

BobbyC65 · Answer

The wife then spouse then back and forth share and share-alike. 💞

geonator · Answer

You voluntarily chose to put your spouse first by marrying them and vowing to put them first

skunkbeard68 · Answer

I don't want to think about my parents Cumming, but then again I guess they did first. 😅

asshole_ · Answer

spouse and then once you have a kid, your kid comes first

888theGreat · Answer

It better be your spouse or you are not going to be married long.

hknmhmn4 · Answer

Of course parents Is this even a question lol

Anonymous · Answer

I guess that depends on your relationship with either, your spouse is now your family too so it really depends on what it is of importantence

berwise13 · Answer

It should be your spouse but many fights are because of this.

PaulyChicago · Answer

Depends on the situation. Family usually comes first but it may be my spouse pending the situation.

EmmaMary · Answer

Without a doubt, my husband (spouse).

nice-girl · Answer

Of course the spouse.

bannacookies · Answer

Me! :D Lol, just kidding.

Iron_Man · Answer

Parents

srijitdutta · Answer

Both.

Sylvanas_Windrunner · Answer

My parents

mrgspoter · Answer

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