She is 25 and he is 29. He said he is just having a gut feeling they won't work out and being ADHD, he follows it. He also said he feels like she is more invested and loves him more than he loves her.
They have been together 4 years.
However they didn't finish the conversation just kind of walked away from it. When she asked the next morning if they were together or broken up, again met with silence and both just kind of walked away from it.
As she was leaving, he gave her a hug and kiss (he rarely does, not a real affectionate person) so she found that strange. SO she was like, "Are we good? Like we're going to try and work things out?" He said, "we're good, i'll call you later"
When he called they just talked like normal about work, their day, etc. So she is so confused on how to handle the situation without scaring him into rethinking breaking up but also she needs to know. WHY would he all of a sudden show a grand gesture of emotion and call her if he was so adamant about breaking it off?
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Because he dont know what he truly wants and changes him mind as he goes
I am terrible at advise. How would you suggest she handle it? Continue as if nothing happened or go cold turkey and stop responding? To me, I think he was adamant about his decision to break up, but I'm just as confused with the fact he was suddenly so affectionate and still calling/texting her.
If u want him to leave for good going cold turkey might achieve that advice for her depends on what she wants
She wants to make things work. But I don't want him thinking they are broken up and he is just friends while she is over here thinking they are working on things. If that makes sense.
Well he stated they are good its pretty obvious at this point he can live without her and she can't him so she will be left in situations like this if he chooses to take advantage of it