Polls

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 3 years. I met him during undergrad. Throughout school, I was working part time jobs to help pay for bills whereas he had a luxury to work if he wanted pocket money. I bought him whatever he needed during that time and made him a priority always no matter what without fail whereas he treated me differently. He did spend money on me for gifts but not as significant effort as I put into it. After I graduated, I applied to graduate school since that’s required for my education. I can’t work while in graduate school though because they don’t allow it, but he has a salary job.

He knew my laptop wasn’t working well, so he took it upon himself to help me get a new one which I appreciated. I told him I wasn’t comfortable with the site he was getting it from. He didn’t listen, got it anyway, kept it for a week without making sure if it was working condition, made me drive a long way to him (we live 3 hours away), go home to see it was faulty. I had to return it myself without his help and my family who’ve been making ends met had to step up and get me the device.

I talked to my bf’s friend that works at an electronic store about tablets for school as well to see if there’s deals, and called my boyfriend to inform him I did so. During the call though, he kept saying that I “purposely” make him look bad and was using the victim card. He kept cutting me off and didn’t let me speak. I told him my chest hurts/hyperventilating since I was overwhelmed and he kept going on and on. I cried and that’s when he stopped and made me feel bad for crying, but apologized saying he was “joking.” Afterwards, he “fell asleep” and didn’t let me know beforehand when he was going to bed so I didn’t have to worry. i confronted him about it both but he apologized and doesn’t seem like he understands the magnitude of what he’s done. What should I do? What type of behavior is this? Why is he acting this way?

Personally, my partner has been around longer than my friends that I’ve met since moving back to my hometown. I believe that he should come first as this relationship is more likely to outlast any friendship (apart from my best friend that I’ve known since we were young children.) I will not hesitate to choose him over temporary friends that I’ve made in my twenties.

My friend thinks that this is insane and that I should choose my friends over him. I would get this if he was a newer love interest but we’ve been in each other’s lives for almost 5 years. I believe that friends will come and go forever, but a relationship with your one person could last a lifetime, at least that is usually the goal.

My question to you is, if it came down to choosing between the two, who would you pick?

So my boyfriend entered to win and he was like well if we win I’m giving your mom money to go on the trip (I planned for us to go to PUERTO RICO for her 50th birthday) and we’ll go off and get married. It was a joke and my mom and I so happen to talk about the mega million and I told her what he said and she got really offended. She’s like oh no one is standing in the way of y’all getting married & your not gonna pay me off.

im like what😒😒no one even took it there it was a joke. So now my mom is angry. I’m like if we didn’t want you apart of it I wouldn’t have even asked you to plan my wedding! She didn’t care about what I was saying or the fact that I was crying cause she ended up telling me to plan my own wedding.

Now once I move out our family home I will no longer speak with her. Now the question is would you be offended by the joke?

p. s. my mom never shows she cares about my feelings but I’ve always been caring of hers and it isn’t fair.

I turned on the TV yesterday and some lady doctor was on a commercial telling us she invented a wonderful type of magical soap or deodorant called Lume that could turn a stinky crotch into a zero-odor crotch. It's supposed to also works on butt cracks, feet and pits. She said even after a shower, the average crotch registers a 5 or a 6 on a 10-point stink scale. But with her product, she says it goes to a zero.

I'm going to go to university but I still don't know what I want, because I'm afraid of making the wrong choice and that my professional career won't give me so much money or that I'll be left without opportunities.
as options is
law, systems engineering or programming.

If I choose law, I will have my father, who is a lawyer, to help me, but he noticed that the legal profession does not have a very good job demand and depends a lot on the client.

systems engineering is more expensive so I don't want to take things lightly either.

I've talked to my father asking him to decide for me, but he doesn't want to.

Which is the best option?

Bad people include cheaters, con artists, liars, golddiggers, players, users, etc. Then there are the decent people who would never dream of doing any of that.

I would like to believe it's really 50/50. There has be a balance (yin-yang) where it can't be all bad but not all good either. Is it really even or are there more bad men/women overriding the good people?

So the magical gods of good looks (aka me 🤪) has made it so everyone in the world thinks you’re a solid 10 of 10. Now that you’re at the top of this food chain and are the most elite of the most elite, you never have to worry about being rejected looks-wise.

So, given the chance, what’s the lowest look you would ever date now? Since you’re a ten, that is, do your rankings change? Will you retain your former rankings or have they increased, since, well, you are abso-ducking-loutely gorgeous?

Do you our standards change for long term relationships and hookups?

Personally, the lowest I would do is probably a seven. Or at least, I say that, but I might do a six because I usually tend to be nicer than I sound.

DISCLAIMER / WARNING : You could still get rejected for your personality or other traits. You’re just a 10 for face and body.

Please replace all of the ‘rankings’ with standards, I’m illiterate af.

Dads, we know you are there to protect your wife and child if you are a good husband and father, but moms, when your husband is not around, like when out and about shopping, etc, does that cause your motherly protection antenna's to come out when you are out in public with your infant, toddler or young child? ... or not so much?

I totally love babies and children! I can't help it, it's instinctive... just saying

In my state it costs $18, 000 per year, to educate a third grade student. You and I both know that the private sector could match or beat that price, and actually teach kids something other than the LGBTQRS crap.

I'm not talking about parents paying out-of-pocket, nothing would change in that regard. You would just be sending your kid to a quality school, instead of the current government clown show.

If the reason is not listed (for example you left for depression, accident, cancer, became a parent or had other family issues that required 24h assistance, broken up with a relationship in the office, and whatnot), feel free to add it in the comment! As long as it was the most common reason you left your jobs / turned off job offers for.

Just curious 🤷🏻‍♀️

Here in the UK guns are mostly limited to Hunters, farmers, clay pigeon shooters etc. People don't buy them for self defence. Normally people who want to take up shooting move in certain circles and are taken under the wing of a more experienced person who trains them. People don't just buy guns at the supermarket then wander into the woods to have a go at hunting.

But in America where guns are common are most people actually trained how to use them or is it just a case of figure it out for yourself?

By winning you over, I mean you suddenly became drawn to someone and desired to be with him/her due to his/her extra effort/persistence.

If you became more attracted due to him/her backing off, I'll have options for that. I'd also like to know if you have won someone over and only answer yes if you're 100% certain.

Please share experiences.

I have really fair skin and dark hair and eyes. Plus I like wearing darker colors so everyone I know pretty much comments on it -especially in summer when I wear skirts or shorts and my legs look like they have never met the Sun- saying how I should get a tan because it always looks more modern etc. but I hate tanning and i believe it damages my skin since it’s very sensitive so I don’t ever do it. On a guy though, I prefer darker skin tones.