If you/Your partner was pregnant, would you be happy or sad?

[Anonymous]

Happy

Sad

Mixed feelings

Not sure

[Cynicaldreamer]

I'm single, but if for some unknown reason I got pregnant, I'd be angry. Not sad or happy: angry. As I do not want or like children (no offense to you parents, or people trying to get pregnant).

I'd wind up giving it up for adoption the moment its born- that way it can go to someone that can give it the love and care it deserves.

[Sarahr123]

I love babies and can’t wait to have them so I would be happy about the baby but then I am not ready to have a child at all and I am not married so I would be worried.

If I got pregnant in 2-3 years and I am married then I would be so happy I can’t express it in words.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I'd need to have a partner first. Second, I'd need a better job. Then, if all that were out of the way, I'd be very happy to hear the news. But I'd also be uneasy about the implications. Literally everyone would have an opinion about my style. And I'd rather not give certain generational curses a chance to live again.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

It would be fucking complicated. I'm polyamorous. My wife wants another baby so badly, but can't ha e one. If I got my girlfriend pregnant... fuck, so many mixed feelings. Like, we want another baby so bad, but my girlfriend isn't the easiest person even in the best of times.

[Asker]

Then should you really be with the girlfriend?

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Well, she has an IUD, so the chance of pregnancy is very low.

[Asker]

But not impossible

[Apple1996]

Well I am pregnant right now. Me and my husband were both shocked since we weren't expecting to be having a baby again so soon. I'd say it was mixes feelings and happy.

[Autember]

I would have mixed feelings if I were to become pregnant. I have zero desire to have kids but I also don't personally agree with abortion for my own life. I believe that everything happens for a reason so I guess I would have to come to terms with the outcome haha

[TransAm85]

I got my tubes tied. And if somehow those clips didn't work and I got pregnant, I'd be very upset. I'd have the kid and give it to someone b/c I don't really agree w/that abortion stuff. I'd give the baby to someone b/c I know that my husband and I wouldn't be fit parents.

[duttyjamagyal]

These men make me sick to my stomach, I'd be happy and he better be happy too and ready to support me and our child. If he does anything different like offer to bring me to an abortion clinic to kill our unborn son/daughter then I'll be a single mother and still be happy

[DaveJord]

Since I have had a vasectomy, and my girl friend has had a hysterotomy, I would have very mixed feelings about it... I would want a paternity test for sure. I would need to rule out the possibility alien abduction turn bad.

[JohnK123]

Happy duh… but like in a few years then yeah my wife could have kids and I’d be happy

i wouldn’t be happy if she wanted a kid then randomly decides in the 8th month to abort because she changed her mind

[Asker]

You’re not allowed to do it that late

[JohnK123]

No Ik but still as a woman she could do whatever she wants 🤷‍♂️ and not even care about my opinion even tho it’s a 50/50 equal half share opinion

[Asker]

Boring male tears.

[JohnK123]

Does the man not have a say?

[Asker]

Of course but at the end of the day he’s not the one carrying the baby so he’s overruled

[JohnK123]

Ok but if a woman says yes to having a kid it’s only possible because of the man lmaoooo

[20yearsolder]

Where is the button for pissed off, if she's pregnant we have a problem because she's had her tubes tied

[menina]

For me getting pregnant now would be impossible. However if I had a boyfriend I would have mixed feelings.

I would be happy because I would have a family, but at the same time I know I'm not in the right place to become a parent.

[Drumlin2001]

We have 2 amazing kids, a 2 yr old and a 1 yr old. We've both said we'd not really want another (OH is 44 later this year, and last pregnancy and birth were hard going). We are taking steps against it, I will be getting snipped sometime soon, if she were to get pregnant we'd most likely terminate, which would be very sad

[duttyjamagyal]

Killer

[Drumlin2001]

Lol!

[duttyjamagyal]

Cut your penis off

[Drumlin2001]

So you're not pro choice? You want to force a woman to carry a child she dosent want

[duttyjamagyal]

Of course I'm not pro choice, because I don't want to force children to DIE. Like be quiet about force. Don't create children you don't want unless your raping your wife something which I won't put past you

[Drumlin2001]

So you don't support capital punishment?

[duttyjamagyal]

No I don't support capital punishment because of a corrupt justice system. I won't be complicit in putting innocent people to death. That's not to say I would have a problem with u lined up against and wall and shot after murdering babies... seems like a efficient way to keep killers from reoffending but without proof of you actually doing it why would I gamble that, that's messed up

[Drumlin2001]

So you are ok with ending life? Seems a little hypocritical.
You seem very angry, who hurt you?

[duttyjamagyal]

Yeah I'm okay with ending the lives of murderers and pedophile rapists, thats equivalent to you killing your innocent baby tho right? Fucking idiot

[RosieMelts]

I’d be upset lol I don’t want to find out anything. If I have a baby it better be planned. I’m not looking to be a full time, unprepared parent and give another human a crappy life.

[Mess96]

It’d depend on various factors like circumstances, where I’m at in my life, the relationship, etc but I don’t think I can get pregnant as much as I’ve always wanted to have my own kids. It’s very low chance that comes with high risks

[Marushka]

If I got pregnant I'd be furious and upset. If my partner got pregnant... I'd have a lot of questions.

[Chazmatazz269]

Happy for her but sad for me. I can’t make babies, so a pregnant partner would be concrete evidence of philandering on her part. That’s fucking brutal.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Totally happy if he was pregnant, that would be awesome... first man ever pregnant.

[MTC29]

Considering she's age 55, I'd be impressed.

[redbeardsley91]

I say "mixed feelings" because it would depend on whom she got pregnant by (if it was non-consensual or bastard child or if it was mine).

[Asker]

This is under the impression it’s yours

[redbeardsley91]

Oh, well, that's different: I'd be OVERJOYED!

[BCRanger10]

I'd be really happy. My wife and I want to have more children.

[ElementoP]

A girl told me she was pregnant once, so I mad her prove it. Then she started going off on me saying I have a small dick and her last boyfriend was so much better in bed than me, and eventually she ended up killing herself

[Asker]

That’s horrific

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Shocked. Perhaps even collapse to the floor if I wanted to be dramatic. The only “kids” I’ll ever be having are cats

[Finchie40]

Sad , because I know it isn’t mine , I had a vasectomy lol

[Monica1984_]

I’d be sad or being this is something I can not do impregnated another woman. Unless laws of nature has change.

[JohnK123]

Haha true

[crossdressingrihno]

Depending on the circumstances I would actually be quite happy

[Anonymous]

Super happy as we're trying to get pregnant right now

[JohnK123]

Ooo congrats lol Ik two pregnant people rn

[Opinion Owner]

@JohnK123 OK. I'm trying to get pregnant and he's trying to get me pregnant (if you want to be all technical)

[JohnK123]

How was I being technical…?

[Opinion Owner]

@JohnK123 That when I said 'we're' trying to get pregnant that it meant we're both trying to each get pregnant individually. When I said 'we' I meant 'me', but he's still (obviously) apart of the process

[JohnK123]

Ohh well u didn’t have to add the technical part lol I still understood what u meant

[JessJJ]

I don't really want more kids but if it happens then fine.

[TacosRAwesome]

Confused tbh. But at this point, I'll keep it.

[LordOfThePines]

Concerned. Neither of us are ready for that nor does she want kids. So we will likely have to travel for an abortion.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Check first to see if anyone in your neighborhood would be willing to adopt.

[LordOfThePines]

That doesn't help the matter when it still costs over 30 grand to have the kid, and it certainly doesn't address the fact she doesn't even want kids. Giving birth means she had kids.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Gasp! The horror! She was fruitful and multiplied! So what? At least if another family adopts, a child wasn't murdered. If she aborts, she still had a child, but murdered said child.

[LordOfThePines]

Killing is not the same as murder. Murder is a crime done out of malice, killing is just a cessation of life. But you are welcome to use whatever buzz terms you wish, I still won't have her go through that. I actually care about my partners life and happiness, and certainly more than any fetus. If people want to take in a child from someone else, they can adopt it from an orphanage. You know, those places where hundreds of thousands of kids live, who desperately want a family, but the vast majority will never be adopted.

[duttyjamagyal]

Murderer

[LordOfThePines]

@duttyjamagyal Who have I killed?

[Drumlin2001]

@LordOfThePines no point engaging, she's just a troll and hypocrite.

[duttyjamagyal]

Planning to kill, this is premeditated murder

[duttyjamagyal]

Yes, I'm a hypocrite cuz I believe he forfeits his right to life after pussy fucking his daughter!!! How dare I want to protect an innocent child for suffering the same fate as a legit pedophilic rapist!! What a fucking hypocrite 😍

[LordOfThePines]

@Drumlin2001 I noticed that. She has been blocked.

[Twalli]

I doubt we'd be dating because it wouldn't be mine.

[Iron_Man]

I would be thrilled I’ve never been a father

[Guanfei]

Fucking overjoyed, I dream about it since I'm 17

[Cubus]

I'm not in a relationship at the moment. But I would be happy of course

[scooogy]

My greatest fear lately would be impregnating loose dating material.

[Anonymous]

Since I have had a vasectomy I’d be a little pissed off

[Anonymous]

I'd be fucking surprised, since she's had her tubes tied and I have a vasectomy!!!

[Wise4myage]

Id be freaking out, lol.

[Asker]

Me too

[Wise4myage]

That's good!!

[abc3643]

Puzzled because she had a hysterectomy!

[Blackcosmo]

I'd be excited but worried too.

[rosemilk]

i would be over the moon happy!

[Punkin_Annie92]

I would be happy I'm ready for kids (:

[JohnK123]

Best of luck to u then haha

[Punkin_Annie92]

Thanks

[LztutuIsCute]

I'm gonna freak out.

[Asker]

Me too

[LztutuIsCute]

We live the same life...

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Abortion, immediately! No discussion or she'll never see me again

[Mess96]

That’s messed up

[Mangospacho]

I’d be surprised because I had a vasectomy

[clampfan101]

Happy for sure because I’m waiting until marriage.

[Hardworkingguy]

If I really love her I'd be extra happy

[Pudsmucker]

Be excited of becoming a father.

[Waldoe]

I'm 72, I'd be very surprised

[TroyDT]

Highly suspicious since I am sterile.

[slatyb]

That would be a medical miracle.

[Lyndsielee666]

Yeetus the feetus tbh

[andreasderjuengere]

Unhappy: I had a vasectomy :D

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'd be happy asf!!!

[Kichbazp_]

Huh?

[maximumpower]

Too old