Would you date someone who doesn't believe in love?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

I picked 'C'.
I wouldn't even know if someone believed in love until I dated them long enough to get to know them well.

How would you find that out unless you actually asked "Do you believe in love?" That would sound intimidating, as if you were trying to sidle into an "I love you" moment. Besides, you don't "fall" in love. You "fall" into infatuation, which is not the same thing as love, even though the feeling of infatuation is what people associate with love. Love is something that grows as you get to know a person. You can't pinpoint exactly when you realized you were in love

But, if I found out that she didn't believe in love, I wouldn't consider a long term relationship with her.

The funny thing about love is, it doesn't exist unless you believe in it. And if you don't believe it exists, you can't fall in love. I can't see how someone like that could be a lifelong partner.

John1972 · Accepted Answer

Okay then, I had to vote for D on this one because I'm currently dating someone who is completely void of any emotions that deal with love. Its like being with a person that only thinks of themselves and has no clue or care of what feelings or concerns that I'm going through

IveGotNoName · Accepted Answer

No because I would only date someone who I see a future with, if they don't believe in love there's no future.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Why fall in love with that person who won’t love me back?

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I might date someone who feels that way, but I would not marry someone like that. There have got to be some major issues there.  Why do you ask?

NathanDavis · Answer

never... because the chances are that they or have felt miserable and do stay with that mindset  and I've enough of my own misery to be looking for some more in others lmao...

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Wow! Good question! I think ‘yes’, but i’ve never actually met someone like that. I definitely need to know more.

20yearsolder · Answer

Yes I would, if I'm not looking for marriage at that point in time. I absolutely would.

spartan55 · Answer

Love touches so many aspects of our lives BeeBella, so I say 'not a chance'.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Sounds like a waste of time, I'd rather be with someone who might eventually fall in love with me

Still-alive · Answer

Hmm depends on how that translates into their actions. Maybe they still act like they do all the things youd expect from a lover despite them not believing in it.

TadCurious · Answer

Bella I voted for B. I'm a romantic at heart.  🥀

Titanic1912 · Answer

I voted B. If someone doesn’t believe in love, they shouldn’t be with anyone. I believe in love and true love never dies.

anon1903 · Answer

As long as they believe in kindness and won't waste my time, I see them as ideal

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I would. I would take that challenge! But I wouldn't do it indefinitely.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I'd show them otherwise. Love is a choice after you get past that early bio lust phase.

Fuentes · Answer

I believe in love but I'm not looking for it so I don't think I'd waste my time in anyone who doesn't believe it.

loveslongnails · Answer

If I wasn't looking for love and I really liked the girl, why not?

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, because I don't either. May her and I can figure it out together.

BCRanger10 · Answer

I mean... what would be the point?

dustybiker · Answer

No. I like gooey eyes too much.

dolemite89 · Answer

yep cuz they’re realistic

jengeorge26 · Answer

I only was in love 🥰 once

Joker_ · Answer

yeah because they likely believe in sex

Msputiton · Answer

Naw.

N17RV · Answer

No that's sad

Degenerate · Answer

Yeah

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