Polls

The term is generally used for a woman but is it possible for a gold digger to be a man?

I don't mean a gigolo that charges older women for his sexual services but a man that's in a long-term relationship for her money/wealth... meanwhile making the girl believe he loves her but doesn't.

My ex boyfriend owes me over $1000 and I doubt I'm the only women he has scammed and stolen from. He wanted to take over half of my future business and at some point kept pressuring about my father's living will. I thought that was weird.

He acted like one of those cruel women that wants to drain a man's hard working money. I can fully understand why more men are afraid of committing to us, afraid of the legal and money issues. He knew my family are wealthy than his and wanted to do that with me. This shocked me to be honest.

Is it just as bad when a man steals our money too?

Many women want a family oriented man to have kids with. Meanwhile more men would be just happy with a forever live-in girlfriend that have sex every single day.

If both were straight forward (no lying nor stringing along anyone) with what they're looking for, what is harder to find:
- A family oriented man to settle down with and have kids. She doesn't want to be a girlfriend forever.

- A woman that would be excited/happy about being a forever live-in girlfriend and never wanting kids. She doesn't care about a proposal nor kids... she's happy with just you and sex forever.

And what did you get pulled over for?

Yesterday I basically got pulled over for the first time. Really the cop just flashed his lights and talked to me through his window but still was the first time that's ever happened to me.

Unless they're the father/mother of your children, there is no other reason to communicate with them. There is nothing to talk about.

If a boyfriend dumps me and wants to keep me as a friend, I'll interpret that as getting demoted to the lowest position on a job; then dealing with the humiliation and insult to your own ego/self-esteem. The guy would likely feel the same way if I did that too. So I think blocked permanently if that's not someone you'll have children with is the correct way. Exes are not meant to become your friends. That's what I believe. How about you?

Personally, I don't want to get married, but I don't mind it for other people. If you want to get married, go ahead and do your thing. 😂
I might change my mind about it when I'm much older (because never say never), but right now, it's just not something I really want for myself.

I talk A LOT and will talk about anying with anyone, but I’m still sorta shy in terms of meet/greets. Like in person, it usually takes 2 hours or so for me to warm up. But after a day or two, I’m not as shy. Now if we haven't seen eachother in a while, the shyness starts over no matter who they are. And this goes for both in-person and video chat.
—
I personally go for guys who are loners and shy because it oddly makes me feel more outgoing. Sometimes I like a challenge so I like to lead the conversation and bring the guy out of his shell. HOWEVER, if a guy hasn't reached his comfortzone with me within 3 days, I’ll start to distance myself and go back into my shell until one of us ghosts the other. I’m not about to work overtime for someone who’s hardly showing the same interest.
#FeelFreeToList

This is the way we should be helping. There are over 368K people looking for a new home. I say bring them in. We have plenty of space for them in the USA 🇺🇸

I've always been tempted to just yolo it but I'm so scared I'm going to regret cutting off my hair. I love both short and long hair but long hair is tough for maintenance and tbh, I don't really receive any compliments on it (maybe because it's so light)...

I'm just really wondering how would it feel to have a light head lol
I'm asking two questions in one poll I know but just comment whether I should cut off my hair or leave it alone.

Yes, the hair in the second pic is mine.